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[stubbornlights]

an old friend was talking to me online.

she brought up how her current relationship was up in arms, and she wasn't sure of how things were going to work out. later, she typed,

"I don't know why I'm saying this, but I had a really big crush on you last year."

I'm not into her. Start running and be a non-juan, or is this just friendly nostalgic banter?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

If you're not into her, then what does it matter?

My guess would be is that she's testing the waters a bit and seeing how you'd react to her telling you this. Most crushes don't go away. A part of that feeling always stays with you and can easily be reignited.

 

[stubbornlights]

it doesn't matter too much, but we're not great friends, and I'd rather not hang out with someone and have the proceedings tinted with some romantic undertone. I just feel really uncomfortable and don't enjoy myself if I'm hanging around with someone who has feelings for me that I don't reciprocate.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by stubbornlights
it doesn't matter too much, but we're not great friends, and I'd rather not hang out with someone and have the proceedings tinted with some romantic undertone. I just feel really uncomfortable and don't enjoy myself if I'm hanging around with someone who has feelings for me that I don't reciprocate.

lol

That's the feeling most women get when their chumpy friend tries to make his move.

 

[Magnatolia]

Dude, if she values your friendship then it won't matter, but you need to make sure she knows that all you want is friendship, nothing more.

There will be romantic undertones if she thinks there's any possibility of something happening.