"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Basically I am pretty bored so I just felt like practicing a little conversation skills. This girl is my friend on myspace, but I dont even know her. Here goes:






me too!! Zzzzzz

good luck!



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: May 3, 2006 5:26 AM

fight week huh? does that have anything to do with the fights at *********? I have been thinking about entering...

sounds like you're doing pretty well.

I'm going to bed. Keep in touch.

:D



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Her
Date: May 3, 2006 3:21 AM

im working on fight week in june, and some thigns in *********....i help with alot of corporate sponsorships aswell.....ppl i work with did *********, umm, jus a little of this and that.



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: May 3, 2006 5:13 AM

wow. thats one of the more interesting jobs I have heard of recently. how did you get into that? booked anything worth mentioning lately?



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Her
Date: May 3, 2006 3:09 AM

job...kinda- im a graphic designer and i do alot of ent. managment...from booking shows, talents, venues, i put all that stuff together.



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: May 3, 2006 5:07 AM

haha drinking on a tuesday night.... do you not have a job or class or anything? :)



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Her
Date: May 3, 2006 3:04 AM

ummm....i actually went to sleep a lil tipsy around 11...i dont know how or why i woke up- but i coudlnt sleep!! NOO idea whats wrong, just, hell i dunno!



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: May 3, 2006 4:58 AM

so what are you doing up so late? thats not normal...



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Her
Date: May 3, 2006 2:57 AM

hahah, yep!! lol!! Good luck!!



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: May 3, 2006 4:49 AM

lol who would read it? The guy who is writing a research paper, a analysis paper, an essay entirely in Japanese, and calculating why a solid sphere moves more quickly down an incline than a hollow one? :)

exam week... oof. lol


----------------- Bulletin Message -----------------
From: Her Bulletin
Date: May 3, 2006 2:19 AM

- c a n ' t s l e e p -


I know this is a boring bulletin but i just cant sleep!! Who's gonna read it anyways! Night ya'll.....










This is kind of "blah" but whatever. It's always good to make connections to people with influence. what do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IMO you could be in the friend zone...meet her man, and then you can actually apply things like C&F, neg hits, kino etc.
 

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Notice the lack of any "?" in any of her responses? Low interest level from her it seems. When I was doing the online thing, I'd get bored and move on from these types.

If she won't ask you anything about yourself, you might be able to trick her into it. A comment like "You look like some actress in that one picture, but I can't remember who." She'll be wondering which picture and who she looks like, and will have to start asking you questions for a change.
 

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you are falling into friendship zone there, becareful buddy.
 

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Talking online does not constitute a field report.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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