sangheilios
Master Don Juan
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This evening I decided to go hit the nightlife out here in my city by myself, first time going solo in quite a while. On my drive there I was just telling myself to go in with no expectations and just use this as a warmup/feeler to get comfortable with this type of environment again instead of pressuring myself to approach a certain number of women.
Anyway, I have a particular place that I like to go to that is primarily outside, I feel less claustrophobic in that type of environment so I tend to prefer that. When I walk in I intentionally make a habit of walking really slow and just casually looking around, this sounds dumb but it's just kind of a reminder to myself to appear relaxed, as I tend to be a bit anxious to a degree. I noticed a ton of women staring at me, which I know isn't a bad thing, so it was a confidence booster but kind of made me feel a bit self conscious. I make my way outside and within 30 seconds I see this latina, around late 30s to early 40s, in a tight white dress that displayed her amazing ass and hips. I grabbed a soda and was briefly composing myself to approach but due to my hesitation I missed that opportunity, as the woman and the friend she was with went to the dance floor. I grabbed a seat just to enjoy the music and regather myself.
I was there for about an hour and just hung out by myself at different parts of the venue, again just getting reacquainted with going solo again. Later on I was sitting down on a bench and the woman in her white dress and her friend weren't standing all that far from me and I was gathering up the energy needed to approach. I was literally about to approach when they both turned to look and stare at me lol. It really caught me off guard and I wasn't sure if that was a good sign or if it was because I might have unwittingly been staring and it came off as creepy. Since I wasn't sure and this was the first time getting back into solo game for quite a while I figured it was a better call to just let it go and not approach.
I ended up leaving not that long after but congratulated myself for getting back into this. I'm also planning on doing this on a regular basis, as I feel seeing opportunities such as this will greatly help me.
Anyway, I have a particular place that I like to go to that is primarily outside, I feel less claustrophobic in that type of environment so I tend to prefer that. When I walk in I intentionally make a habit of walking really slow and just casually looking around, this sounds dumb but it's just kind of a reminder to myself to appear relaxed, as I tend to be a bit anxious to a degree. I noticed a ton of women staring at me, which I know isn't a bad thing, so it was a confidence booster but kind of made me feel a bit self conscious. I make my way outside and within 30 seconds I see this latina, around late 30s to early 40s, in a tight white dress that displayed her amazing ass and hips. I grabbed a soda and was briefly composing myself to approach but due to my hesitation I missed that opportunity, as the woman and the friend she was with went to the dance floor. I grabbed a seat just to enjoy the music and regather myself.
I was there for about an hour and just hung out by myself at different parts of the venue, again just getting reacquainted with going solo again. Later on I was sitting down on a bench and the woman in her white dress and her friend weren't standing all that far from me and I was gathering up the energy needed to approach. I was literally about to approach when they both turned to look and stare at me lol. It really caught me off guard and I wasn't sure if that was a good sign or if it was because I might have unwittingly been staring and it came off as creepy. Since I wasn't sure and this was the first time getting back into solo game for quite a while I figured it was a better call to just let it go and not approach.
I ended up leaving not that long after but congratulated myself for getting back into this. I'm also planning on doing this on a regular basis, as I feel seeing opportunities such as this will greatly help me.
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