"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Brian20o2

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I am pissed off! Today was the day. I was planning on going job searching and doing approaches at the same time after my dentist appointment, but for some reason my mom decided to come job searching with me.... No approaches!!!

I have found some songs that get me in the right mood (Dont care, Upbeat, Smooth) Classic Ludacris! "Area Codes" "Rollout" "Move b*tch" Those songs get me in the perfect frame. Im gonna listen to them Pre sarge every time.

I am postponing my Approaches untill I get my driving privlages back (I have 2 Ds, need Cs at least) Should be soon though. Also I will be sure to approach whenever I am out.

ShyRyder said:
Where U at homeboy?????
Are you at least trying man?
I live in Northwest WA, and Yes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bourne

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I used to read these FR journals and say, yeah these are hard and give benefit of a doubt to people who said they are going to do this and that but didn't.

Now, that I am doing one and going out there and getting rejected, getting success and improving where I was the classsic definition of AFC. Don't get me wrong, I have loooooong ways to go. Everything now seems like an excuse if I don't do something I want.

So stop using excuses. You either do this or you don't.
 

ShyRyder

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Brian20o2 said:
I am pissed off! Today was the day. I was planning on going job searching and doing approaches at the same time after my dentist appointment, but for some reason my mom decided to come job searching with me.... No approaches!!!

I have found some songs that get me in the right mood (Dont care, Upbeat, Smooth) Classic Ludacris! "Area Codes" "Rollout" "Move b*tch" Those songs get me in the perfect frame. Im gonna listen to them Pre sarge every time.

I am postponing my Approaches untill I get my driving privlages back (I have 2 Ds, need Cs at least) Should be soon though. Also I will be sure to approach whenever I am out.


I live in Northwest WA, and Yes.
Hey if you want it bad enough get past the Excuses and postponements. Man your only 16 by the time that your 20 you could own this world but ya gotta start now. You don’t have to do anything crazy for you first approaches just ask for the time or do the DJ bootcamp and say high for a bit. I see that you got a lifting thread in the health and fitness section that’s really good to start on a good path young. Take it all the way man control your reality and do what you wanna do today cause tomorrow aint real.

-Ryder
 

Badmannaz

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already 2 pages of reply's and not ONE GOD D*MN APPROACH!!!!!!:kick: :nono: :moon: :mad: :trouble:

i think you belong in the h-school disscussion my friend:wave:

You have much to learn young padawan
too many excuses..the force is weak in you homie:yes:


Get it together...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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