"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Brians 100 Approach Journal

Brian20o2

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I am pissed off! Today was the day. I was planning on going job searching and doing approaches at the same time after my dentist appointment, but for some reason my mom decided to come job searching with me.... No approaches!!!

I have found some songs that get me in the right mood (Dont care, Upbeat, Smooth) Classic Ludacris! "Area Codes" "Rollout" "Move b*tch" Those songs get me in the perfect frame. Im gonna listen to them Pre sarge every time.

I am postponing my Approaches untill I get my driving privlages back (I have 2 Ds, need Cs at least) Should be soon though. Also I will be sure to approach whenever I am out.

ShyRyder said:
Where U at homeboy?????
Are you at least trying man?
I live in Northwest WA, and Yes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bourne

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I used to read these FR journals and say, yeah these are hard and give benefit of a doubt to people who said they are going to do this and that but didn't.

Now, that I am doing one and going out there and getting rejected, getting success and improving where I was the classsic definition of AFC. Don't get me wrong, I have loooooong ways to go. Everything now seems like an excuse if I don't do something I want.

So stop using excuses. You either do this or you don't.
 

ShyRyder

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Brian20o2 said:
I am pissed off! Today was the day. I was planning on going job searching and doing approaches at the same time after my dentist appointment, but for some reason my mom decided to come job searching with me.... No approaches!!!

I have found some songs that get me in the right mood (Dont care, Upbeat, Smooth) Classic Ludacris! "Area Codes" "Rollout" "Move b*tch" Those songs get me in the perfect frame. Im gonna listen to them Pre sarge every time.

I am postponing my Approaches untill I get my driving privlages back (I have 2 Ds, need Cs at least) Should be soon though. Also I will be sure to approach whenever I am out.


I live in Northwest WA, and Yes.
Hey if you want it bad enough get past the Excuses and postponements. Man your only 16 by the time that your 20 you could own this world but ya gotta start now. You don’t have to do anything crazy for you first approaches just ask for the time or do the DJ bootcamp and say high for a bit. I see that you got a lifting thread in the health and fitness section that’s really good to start on a good path young. Take it all the way man control your reality and do what you wanna do today cause tomorrow aint real.

-Ryder
 

Badmannaz

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already 2 pages of reply's and not ONE GOD D*MN APPROACH!!!!!!:kick: :nono: :moon: :mad: :trouble:

i think you belong in the h-school disscussion my friend:wave:

You have much to learn young padawan
too many excuses..the force is weak in you homie:yes:


Get it together...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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