“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Breastarants and hired guns

Bossman90

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Anyone on here good with hired guns like strippers and hooters waitresses.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah i am.... Bro all you gotta do is just put your penis on the table when they're taking your order/dancing. Since they sre trained to make the guy feel good and stuff this will totally take her by suprise.... Works everytime.
 

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Read my thread on strippers.

Judge nismo orders you to go talk to these girls after work. At work, these women are PAID TO BE NICE TO YOU AND ATTRACT BUSINESS. You'll think with your dik, they think with their debts.

Case closed.
 

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Don't!

I have a small amount of experience with Strippers, and as a former Manager of a Hooter's Restaurant, you are barking up a really crappy tree.

I'm not going so far as to say all Strippers and Hooters' girls are crap - but I think you have lost sight, if you ever had it, what being "so suave" is about.

We start our pursuit of women and some learn straight away that women are not the prize -- we men are the prize. Just looking for a stripper or a hooters girl is telling me that you want a fantastic looking woman with little regard for the rest of her. Well - that's fine in some cases - but I guarantee you that path is filled with short term fun but long term regret. I guarantee it. Beautiful woman are one thing - but these gals are not that good looking once you get close.

They are people, too. And some of the gals are bright, articulate and have heard anything you can come up with. You want to make it with one of these gals- the first advantage is to find out ( without freaking them out) is where they play after they work. Most of the Hooters' Girls will have nothing to do with any guy that they meet while working. It has nothing to do with you, but with what their co-workers will NOT say to them if they find out. No girl, regardless of their sexual activities want's to be thought of as an easy lay. And of course, if a hooters' girl is seen with you in public, and her friends (co-workers)recognize you from the store, they are gonna speak those evil lies (true or not!) about her to everyone else. (Not every girl is like this, but enough of them are to discourage any girl from doing this)

So -- you have to meet the Hooters' girl for the first time without ever knowing she works at Hooters.

If you want to meet strippers, any waffle house or IHOP or Denny's may have them getting food when they get off work - anywhere from 4 to 6 am. They will look horrible, because they've been on their feet all night. It can be scary. They will all have issues - because healthy, well-adjusted women don't strip. (If they do, they don't stay healthy, well-adjusted women)

My best advice is for you to forget about it. Do the things that you like to do. When you see a good looking woman that you'd like to know better, invite her into your world for an action date. No movies, no plays, (but maybe a comedy lounge). Air Hockey. Pool. Bowling. Tubing, Horseback riding - anything that will keep you from talking about yourself - but make you seem more fun than the average guy. Never let these outings end "in their own time" - but call them short on purpose. If you're not having a good time, call it even sooner. If you're having a great time - she probably is, too. Leave her wanting more.
As you improve yourself, you will attract beautiful women that aren't shaking that junk in the trunk for a buck.

And, as my old man would say, "If it's that easy, there's probably something wrong with it."
 

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Big Pappy said:
I have a small amount of experience with Strippers, and as a former Manager of a Hooter's Restaurant, you are barking up a really crappy tree.

I'm not going so far as to say all Strippers and Hooters' girls are crap - but I think you have lost sight, if you ever had it, what being "so suave" is about.

We start our pursuit of women and some learn straight away that women are not the prize -- we men are the prize. Just looking for a stripper or a hooters girl is telling me that you want a fantastic looking woman with little regard for the rest of her. Well - that's fine in some cases - but I guarantee you that path is filled with short term fun but long term regret. I guarantee it. Beautiful woman are one thing - but these gals are not that good looking once you get close.

They are people, too. And some of the gals are bright, articulate and have heard anything you can come up with. You want to make it with one of these gals- the first advantage is to find out ( without freaking them out) is where they play after they work. Most of the Hooters' Girls will have nothing to do with any guy that they meet while working. It has nothing to do with you, but with what their co-workers will NOT say to them if they find out. No girl, regardless of their sexual activities want's to be thought of as an easy lay. And of course, if a hooters' girl is seen with you in public, and her friends (co-workers)recognize you from the store, they are gonna speak those evil lies (true or not!) about her to everyone else. (Not every girl is like this, but enough of them are to discourage any girl from doing this)

So -- you have to meet the Hooters' girl for the first time without ever knowing she works at Hooters.

If you want to meet strippers, any waffle house or IHOP or Denny's may have them getting food when they get off work - anywhere from 4 to 6 am. They will look horrible, because they've been on their feet all night. It can be scary. They will all have issues - because healthy, well-adjusted women don't strip. (If they do, they don't stay healthy, well-adjusted women)

My best advice is for you to forget about it. Do the things that you like to do. When you see a good looking woman that you'd like to know better, invite her into your world for an action date. No movies, no plays, (but maybe a comedy lounge). Air Hockey. Pool. Bowling. Tubing, Horseback riding - anything that will keep you from talking about yourself - but make you seem more fun than the average guy. Never let these outings end "in their own time" - but call them short on purpose. If you're not having a good time, call it even sooner. If you're having a great time - she probably is, too. Leave her wanting more.
As you improve yourself, you will attract beautiful women that aren't shaking that junk in the trunk for a buck.

And, as my old man would say, "If it's that easy, there's probably something wrong with it."
I worked at a 4 star restaurant in New Orleans and the waitresses were very stuck up, yet threw themselves at any man who passed through the parking lot in a 745 BMW! I never messed with any of these women.

I once dated a Hooter's Girl and a New Orleans Hornets Honeybee (dancers for the basketball team). Only because I was a popular student at school and I had a tricked out car.

I did take these women into chambers. If it weren't for the attributes above, I wouldn't have had a chance.

Most women I meet today in Atlanta are either strippers, hookers, golddiggers, or flakes. Not to mention shallow.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tortoise and the Scorpion. One day a Scorpion asked a turtle for a ride across the lake and the turtle said "No way, you're a scorpion, you'll sting me" but the scorpion said "but I need you, I can't swim and if I hurt you we'd both go down". So the turtle said "Ok, hop on" and half-way across the lake the scorpion stung him. As they both went under the tortoise asked "Dear Scorpion, why did you sting me when I was carrying you on my back?" to which it replied "Because I'm a scorpion. It's just in my nature to sting. You knew what I was when you met me."
 
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Big Pappy said:
I have a small amount of experience with Strippers, and as a former Manager of a Hooter's Restaurant, you are barking up a really crappy tree.

I'm not going so far as to say all Strippers and Hooters' girls are crap - but I think you have lost sight, if you ever had it, what being "so suave" is about.

We start our pursuit of women and some learn straight away that women are not the prize -- we men are the prize. Just looking for a stripper or a hooters girl is telling me that you want a fantastic looking woman with little regard for the rest of her. Well - that's fine in some cases - but I guarantee you that path is filled with short term fun but long term regret. I guarantee it. Beautiful woman are one thing - but these gals are not that good looking once you get close.

They are people, too. And some of the gals are bright, articulate and have heard anything you can come up with. You want to make it with one of these gals- the first advantage is to find out ( without freaking them out) is where they play after they work. Most of the Hooters' Girls will have nothing to do with any guy that they meet while working. It has nothing to do with you, but with what their co-workers will NOT say to them if they find out. No girl, regardless of their sexual activities want's to be thought of as an easy lay. And of course, if a hooters' girl is seen with you in public, and her friends (co-workers)recognize you from the store, they are gonna speak those evil lies (true or not!) about her to everyone else. (Not every girl is like this, but enough of them are to discourage any girl from doing this)

So -- you have to meet the Hooters' girl for the first time without ever knowing she works at Hooters.

If you want to meet strippers, any waffle house or IHOP or Denny's may have them getting food when they get off work - anywhere from 4 to 6 am. They will look horrible, because they've been on their feet all night. It can be scary. They will all have issues - because healthy, well-adjusted women don't strip. (If they do, they don't stay healthy, well-adjusted women)

My best advice is for you to forget about it. Do the things that you like to do. When you see a good looking woman that you'd like to know better, invite her into your world for an action date. No movies, no plays, (but maybe a comedy lounge). Air Hockey. Pool. Bowling. Tubing, Horseback riding - anything that will keep you from talking about yourself - but make you seem more fun than the average guy. Never let these outings end "in their own time" - but call them short on purpose. If you're not having a good time, call it even sooner. If you're having a great time - she probably is, too. Leave her wanting more.
As you improve yourself, you will attract beautiful women that aren't shaking that junk in the trunk for a buck.

And, as my old man would say, "If it's that easy, there's probably something wrong with it."



^^^^^^ That was a really great post^^^^^^ :rockon:
 

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I had succes with strippers before the community and was good with hot girls before depression. I think if I can get my quick wit back, I could go into both of those environments and be the life of the party and just bust on them like I used to I could easily get them. As for the guy who is the manager of hooters, I have no interest in dating. I just like banging girls.
 
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