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Breakups Hit Men Harder Than Women

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Contrary to the common belief that men are emotionless robots capable of only horniness and rage, a recent study has found evidence to suggest that men are, in fact, able to experience other, more vulnerable emotions. Not only that, but it seems men may actually be more emotionally invested in romantic relationships than their female partners. While gender stereotypes often paint women as the more emotionally attached partners in relationships, and thus the more distraught over their dissolution, recent research suggests men may actually be the ones stuck sobbing over a pint of ice cream after a breakup.


Researchers found that talk of heartache, regret and tears after a breakup was surprisingly pronounced among men, occurring “significantly more” among male respondents than female ones.

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Thoughts?
 

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Contrary to the common belief that men are emotionless robots capable of only horniness and rage, a recent study has found evidence to suggest that men are, in fact, able to experience other, more vulnerable emotions. Not only that, but it seems men may actually be more emotionally invested in romantic relationships than their female partners. While gender stereotypes often paint women as the more emotionally attached partners in relationships, and thus the more distraught over their dissolution, recent research suggests men may actually be the ones stuck sobbing over a pint of ice cream after a breakup.


Researchers found that talk of heartache, regret and tears after a breakup was surprisingly pronounced among men, occurring “significantly more” among male respondents than female ones.

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That”s because most men can not replace a girl in the vast majority of cases

They have no options so they stay and think about the girl :)

Bang 2 new girls in a couple of weeks and you will be amazed on how fast the intensity of the feelings for the ex cool down
 

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That”s because most men can not replace a girl in the vast majority of cases

They have no options so they stay and think about the girl :)

Bang 2 new girls in a couple of weeks and you will be amazed on how fast the intensity of the feelings for the ex cool down
Best way to get over it is get another one. Pull up your boot straps get a fcking hobby and find another girl. Stop making these women the goal. There are no unicorns haha
 

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Best way to get over it is get another one. Pull up your boot straps get a fcking hobby and find another girl. Stop making these women the goal. There are no unicorns haha
Look man, it is ok to feel bad that it did not work with a girl you liked or that things with your gf did not work out

But from feeling bad to be a chronic whiner is a big difference

Real men accept that they feel bad, that it sucks but at the same time they have to be a man about it and get back in their feet

Most men do not even go out of their house, they just sit there masturbate and hope that they can learn an incantation to magically summon naked girls in their bed

Like I said multiple times before, women are right when they say that most men are sh1t

Real men know that it is only up to them to make things happen and no one will help them in their journey, actually people will try to slow him down or sidetrack him
 
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Look man, it is ok to feel bad that it did not work with a girl you liked or that things with your gf did not work out

But from feeling bad to be a chronic whiner is a big difference

Real men accept that they feel bad, that it sucks but at the same time they have to be a man about it and get back in their feet

Most men do not even go out of their house, they just sit there masturbate and hope that they can learn an incantation to magically summon naked girls in their bed

Like I said multiple times before, women are right when they say that most men are sh1t

Real men know that it is only up to them to make things happen and no one will help them in their journey, actually people will try to slow him down or sidetrack him
Ups and downs are inevitable and whoever doesn't know this before anything in their life happens is in a daydream. They are not reachable.
Aka The Truman Show?

The guy who doesn't leave his house?
Let darwinism take him out. Not my problem. And what does feel bad mean to s guy?
You went full circle after trying to lecture me about how its ok to feel bad. "Pull up boot straps"
Where did I say feeling bad is not ok? Of course. Go in your room and cry.
You live in a yin and yang world. Every streak of feel good swings back the other way.
Im talking about not being taken by the flood.
Those are they guys who commit murder suicides. The real dillusionals.
Its not hard to understand.
 

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I am mixed on the advice being given on here. I absolutely think finding a new woman is key to getting over an ex. On the other hand the brain chemicals involved are very real after a breakup. Numerous scientific studies have shown that the withdrawal after a breakup is stronger then a drug user getting off of a very powerful drug. So its not so easy to tell a guy to just get over it because very powerful brain chemicals are involved. The old days of telling a man to man up or get over it are over. Our current way of thinking is to allow a person to go through their feelings. Men used to have no support for this kind of thing. Society used to tell men to just deal with it which is messed up considering women get tons of support.
 

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Has no one read War Brides? It's an adapted trait.

When invaders came in and plundered a kingdom, the men and children were dispatched but not the women. I wonder why?

The ones who came to 'love' their new owners lived, and those who were loyal to their fallen husbands did not.
 

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Has no one read War Brides? It's an adapted trait.

When invaders came in and plundered a kingdom, the men and children were dispatched but not the women. I wonder why?

The ones who came to 'love' their new owners lived, and those who were loyal to their fallen husbands did not.
Yes. Female nature is brutal. Adapt or not.
 

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It's a well known fact, why do you think men kill themselves and ex-partners at such a high rate compared to women?
 

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It's a well known fact, why do you think men kill themselves and ex-partners at such a high rate compared to women?
Testosterone, lack of emotional control and instant gratification issues, mostly.
 

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Look man, it is ok to feel bad that it did not work with a girl you liked or that things with your gf did not work out

But from feeling bad to be a chronic whiner is a big difference

Real men accept that they feel bad, that it sucks but at the same time they have to be a man about it and get back in their feet

Most men do not even go out of their house, they just sit there masturbate and hope that they can learn an incantation to magically summon naked girls in their bed

Like I said multiple times before, women are right when they say that most men are sh1t

Real men know that it is only up to them to make things happen and no one will help them in their journey, actually people will try to slow him down or sidetrack him
I know what your saying but it's really important for your subconscious to have sympathy. But getting stuck in negative thoughts is also bad and creates bad patterns that your subconscious will get addicted to.

And your right, people get in the way a lot on our journey.
 

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I had this conversation with a girl at my work earlier this week. I said how apparently women feel less bad about breakups etc than men. The girl responded that women are under huge pressure to pretend like they don't care because of feminism type stuff and other women. So according to her they are just lying in the studies etc. I actually believe she's right though.

A few decades ago the most important thing women listed in life was a man. Now it's like education, career etc. Basically whatever the new fad of what they are supposed to think is the answers they are giving. Women love to seek validation. I can give fake answers to stuff to but it doesn't mean that's how I actually feel
 

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The girl responded that women are under huge pressure to pretend like they don't care
Also that can be a factor, but at the same time women are also less romantical than men on average :)

They might be less romantical because of the options they have or because they start hating you, which makes them less prone to be warmer when she is detaching herself from
You

That is why I think when a woman is going through the motions about you, it is very difficult to even have at least a decent logical discussion with her
 

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I had this conversation with a girl at my work earlier this week. I said how apparently women feel less bad about breakups etc than men. The girl responded that women are under huge pressure to pretend like they don't care because of feminism type stuff and other women. So according to her they are just lying in the studies etc. I actually believe she's right though.

A few decades ago the most important thing women listed in life was a man. Now it's like education, career etc. Basically whatever the new fad of what they are supposed to think is the answers they are giving. Women love to seek validation. I can give fake answers to stuff to but it doesn't mean that's how I actually feel
You're a brave man, Clark, for even talking to a chick at work about anything social.
 
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