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Breakup with long time girlfriend for new girlfriend?

jnMissouri

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-New girl is a 9, mid thirties, fun, banging body and face, we love each other, etc.

-Been dating each other about 5 months.

-She is not as financially put together as my current girl though who isn't a baller by any means but leaps and bounds better off than this one. I've never been a sugar daddy, I expect women to contribute financially to things. New girl has career potential though. She drives me wild too, makes me feel alive.

Current girl's beauty and my attraction for her is starting to fade or has been for a long time. She went from an 8.5 to a 7. I started having affairs a few years into the relationship (she was no angel herself back in one of her past relationships). She's kind of slow and aggravating some times as well. To some extent I think I've stayed so long because I have no family support system nearby and spend the holiday's with her family, etc. Thing is, I know it's over in a lot of ways because sometimes I want to come home and tell her about this new girl as if my current girl is my friend not my girlfriend...She suspects there is another woman, but kind of turns a blind eye sometimes as if she doesn't want to know, is afraid to find out for sure.

FWIW, I've tried to end the relationship for years with this girl but she just pretends that I never asked her to leave or tried to break up with her.

Biggest reason I'm doing this is because the new girl keeps wondering why I never bring her to my place and she is about to come back from seeing her family. Sooner or later the jig will be up. New girl also seems to suspect I have someone else, has asked questions about certain things before, but also seems to not want to know for sure...
 
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New girl drives you Wild?? Sorry it isn't going to last.
 

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Wtf?

You're in a relationship that you 'tried' to end? Boy if you don't nut up and break up with this girl...

As for the second girl. Make her a plate. Let her all for exclusivity. But remember, everything that goes is not gold.
 

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Wtf?

You're in a relationship that you 'tried' to end? Boy if you don't nut up and break up with this girl...

As for the second girl. Make her a plate. Let her all for exclusivity. But remember, everything that goes is not gold.
There is always someone hotter, sexier, wilder around the corner.

Sometimes you can let go of a good thing, chasing those girls that, as you state DRIVE YOU WILD
 

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You are a guy "in demand" right now. Life feels pretty sweet huh? And everyone can see this in you

THERE'S the attraction. And if you lose that - you will lose them both.

What happens when you stop being that guy? What happens when you go all "committal" on the 9?

Tread carefully my friend
 

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New girl is a 9, mid thirties, fun, banging body and face, we love each other, etc.
So she is a NEW girl and you LOVE each other? What could possibly go wrong with this insta-relationship?

This is not called building a rotation. This is called delirious thinking.
 

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Wtf?

You're in a relationship that you 'tried' to end? Boy if you don't nut up and break up with this girl...

As for the second girl. Make her a plate. Let her ask* for exclusivity. But remember, everything that glitters* is not gold.
 

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Really I don't see the problem. Just break things off with the chick you don't want.... this isn't rocket science. You should have done this months ago when you felt the need to date other chicks.
 

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If you've been cheating on current girl for awhile, let her go so she can find someone who is LOYAL

Hypergamous branch swinging men.....
 

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Thing is I view relationships as temporary anyways. It soured with the old/current girl and she won't leave. New girl is my current fun but wont last forever.
 
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Thing is I view relationships as temporary anyways. It soured with the old/current girl and she won't leave. New girl is my current fun but wont last forever.
If it’s soured with the current gf end it. Not sure what the hiccup is here. She’s not forcing you to be with her is she, with gun to head?
She may get upset but she’ll move on and meet someone else and be out of your life.
 
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