"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oddly enough, Spring Break is the biggest precursor for a breakup.

http://mathiasmikkelsen.com/2010/10/amazing-facts-about-facebook-and-breakups/

It's always funny to me when I have a guy ask me for advice about his suspicions that his GF is cheating, or something "just doesn't feel right" or should he NEXT her, only to have some die-hard white knight give me the All-For-Love speech when I tell him he should. We don't know for sure, talk it out with her, communicate better, be a good listeners, blah blah blah,..

Oh wait, Spring Break is a week out? Yeah, NEXT her.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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one of the reasons that I like being single, is not worrying about stuff like this.
 
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It´s scary, but it seems to be true. I have got 2 painful peek break ups. Statistics rocks!!!
 
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My guess would have been Christmas...

Interestingly there are two major break up seasons...

In short, lots of single ladies after Christmas holiday and right after spring break.:yes:
 
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This is old Rollo why are you posting it again? Just curious.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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For what it's worth, my 3-year LTR broke up with me immediately after Spring Break.
 
Rollo Tomassi

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Bump, for all the college age guys getting ready for Spring Break this month.
 
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haha "too cruel" christmas.

this is more reason to get out there boys! gogo! think about the huge % of more available girls there are at this point in time.. the odds are in our favor.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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