“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Breakup Predictability

Rollo Tomassi

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Oddly enough, Spring Break is the biggest precursor for a breakup.

http://mathiasmikkelsen.com/2010/10/amazing-facts-about-facebook-and-breakups/

It's always funny to me when I have a guy ask me for advice about his suspicions that his GF is cheating, or something "just doesn't feel right" or should he NEXT her, only to have some die-hard white knight give me the All-For-Love speech when I tell him he should. We don't know for sure, talk it out with her, communicate better, be a good listeners, blah blah blah,..

Oh wait, Spring Break is a week out? Yeah, NEXT her.
:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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one of the reasons that I like being single, is not worrying about stuff like this.
 

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It´s scary, but it seems to be true. I have got 2 painful peek break ups. Statistics rocks!!!
 

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My guess would have been Christmas...

Interestingly there are two major break up seasons...

In short, lots of single ladies after Christmas holiday and right after spring break.:yes:
 

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This is old Rollo why are you posting it again? Just curious.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For what it's worth, my 3-year LTR broke up with me immediately after Spring Break.
 

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Bump, for all the college age guys getting ready for Spring Break this month.
 

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haha "too cruel" christmas.

this is more reason to get out there boys! gogo! think about the huge % of more available girls there are at this point in time.. the odds are in our favor.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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