Breakup, no contact, give her stuff back?

[Gregorn]

Hi,

My girlfriend dumped me a week ago. I know the best idea is to go no contact with her (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=82346). I have a good feeling she will end up contacting me again since I think we broke up mostly because of external factors, not a new guy or anything. We dated five months.

I'm not sure what I'll do if she contacts me. Probably at least blow her off at first. I'd have to think about it.

But anyway my question is: I have a pillow and a few things of hers. I don't really want to break no contact since I've done a good job of it so far even though I really want to see her. Is it okay if I drop her pillow off on her porch? We live really close by. I also have a couple pictures of her by herself that i have no need for now. Is it okay if I give those back or would that look vindictive? Perhaps it would further look like I was just moving on. I'm unsure.

Thank you

 

[chuchu]

Haha your gf dumped u, game over. Now press reset.

Give the pillow to the homeless.

 

[Da Realist]

If she's not asking for it, don't give it back. Just throw it in a box in the attic and keep going.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I would give it back to her. I have left things over at a girlfriends house that I really wanted back. Thankfully, I did... Stop by her house and drop it off without telling her.

Or if you really want throw it away. Just don't keep it cause seeing those items will only remind you of her.

 

[chinwaggler]

put it away in a box. if you keep them, she'll think you're clinging on, if you leave them on a porch or give them away, she'll think your being vindictive, unless she asks for them back.