"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Breaking up with the GF

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I want to break up with my girlfriend, I miss the chasing, the clubs, the numbers...

Problem is shes a hopeless romantic that wants that cliche prom, and the guy around her. She'd be heartbroken if i broke up with her, and I know back when I was in my oneitis stage, I was heartbroken too when that fell apart. I have no reason to break up with her. Any advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Be a man and do what you want, not what others want. Sure she'll be sad, but she'll get over it.
 
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mtlwlu said:
I want to break up with my girlfriend, I miss the chasing, the clubs, the numbers...

Problem is shes a hopeless romantic that wants that cliche prom, and the guy around her. She'd be heartbroken if i broke up with her, and I know back when I was in my oneitis stage, I was heartbroken too when that fell apart. I have no reason to break up with her. Any advice?
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That is good enough reason to breakup with her.
 
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Just do it. Let her down lightly.

But make absolutely sure you're not gonna want her back after. It might be a blow to your ego if she moves on quickly and ends up with a new boyfriend.
 
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