"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Breaking up with the GF

mtlwlu

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I want to break up with my girlfriend, I miss the chasing, the clubs, the numbers...

Problem is shes a hopeless romantic that wants that cliche prom, and the guy around her. She'd be heartbroken if i broke up with her, and I know back when I was in my oneitis stage, I was heartbroken too when that fell apart. I have no reason to break up with her. Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CaptainJ

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Be a man and do what you want, not what others want. Sure she'll be sad, but she'll get over it.
 

amoka

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mtlwlu said:
I want to break up with my girlfriend, I miss the chasing, the clubs, the numbers...

Problem is shes a hopeless romantic that wants that cliche prom, and the guy around her. She'd be heartbroken if i broke up with her, and I know back when I was in my oneitis stage, I was heartbroken too when that fell apart. I have no reason to break up with her. Any advice?
That is good enough reason to breakup with her.
 

starplayer

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Just do it. Let her down lightly.

But make absolutely sure you're not gonna want her back after. It might be a blow to your ego if she moves on quickly and ends up with a new boyfriend.
 
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