"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Breaking up with the GF

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I want to break up with my girlfriend, I miss the chasing, the clubs, the numbers...

Problem is shes a hopeless romantic that wants that cliche prom, and the guy around her. She'd be heartbroken if i broke up with her, and I know back when I was in my oneitis stage, I was heartbroken too when that fell apart. I have no reason to break up with her. Any advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Be a man and do what you want, not what others want. Sure she'll be sad, but she'll get over it.
 
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mtlwlu said:
I want to break up with my girlfriend, I miss the chasing, the clubs, the numbers...

Problem is shes a hopeless romantic that wants that cliche prom, and the guy around her. She'd be heartbroken if i broke up with her, and I know back when I was in my oneitis stage, I was heartbroken too when that fell apart. I have no reason to break up with her. Any advice?
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That is good enough reason to breakup with her.
 
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Just do it. Let her down lightly.

But make absolutely sure you're not gonna want her back after. It might be a blow to your ego if she moves on quickly and ends up with a new boyfriend.
 
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