I broke up with my current gf about two months ago and we talked about it and decided to give it one try, shes super nice and smart. However it sounds bad but I know I can do better and frankly Im bored with her, I already have a few other girls "in the works". Shes going off to school next year and Im simply not committed enough to make a 1.5 h drive to see her on campus, we're at different parts of our lives, I recently graduated from university and shes just starting. I want to break up with her, but I have no real reason to and if I bring it up Ill "blind side" her again.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
breaking up with the gf ...again
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
eaglez1177
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No real reason? Hmm lets see:mtlwlu said:I broke up with my current gf about two months ago and we talked about it and decided to give it one try, shes super nice and smart. However it sounds bad but I know I can do better and frankly Im bored with her, I already have a few other girls "in the works". Shes going off to school next year and Im simply not committed enough to make a 1.5 h drive to see her on campus, we're at different parts of our lives, I recently graduated from university and shes just starting. I want to break up with her, but I have no real reason to and if I bring it up Ill "blind side" her again.
-Youre bored of her
-You dont wanna commit
-Youve got other girls on the side
-Youre both at different parts of your lives
-Youre way more mature than she is
Regardless of what I listed, you don't need to give her or yourself any reasons, and who gives a fvck if you "blind side her" haha. Men do what they want when they want, and if you just dont feel like being with this girl and dont want to commit, then break up with her. Simple as that. Who gives a sh*t about what she thinks, and even more, who gives a fvck if she feels like shes being "blind sided" outta nowhere when you tell her one day that you don't wanna be with her.
That whole "blind side" bullsh*t is just her trying to mentally prepare herself for the end of the relationship, and also her trying to make sure she dumps you first, and not the other way around.
cavedweller
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If you are getting bored with her and the relationship break-up with her and move on...
If you are getting bored with her and the relationship break-up with her and move on...
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I'm pretty sure the whole reason he posted this is because he DOESN'T want to be a **** about it. Just do it and say you're sorry and you're not trying to **** her over but it's just not gonna work out. Simple as that. You don't have to be a douche about it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.