"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok so recently ive hooked up with this girl I was dating from university. She got back from visiting her mom in another city and shes been showing me low interest. When she was away I called her somedays but she never called me, not once and didnt return my calls. Now that shes back in town, She doesnt return my calls either. LIke tonight I called her and she said oh Im on the the other line talking , can I call you back and I said sure, but she never called back, fvcking *****. Plus she always keeps talking about her ex´s and they keep calling her. I told her to tell them to fvck off and she says that she already did but they dont care and keep calling anyways, BS. I know Im gonna have to break up with her cause she seems like a complete Attention Wh0re to me, what do you guys think?any ideas on what I should do?Oh BTW Im breaking up with her sometime this week before oct. 9 cause that´s her birthday, and if im breaking up with her anyways, I would do so before her birthday , so that I dont hafto spend money on a gift hahah. **** I just realized I would get more responses if this were in the don juan discussion, can any of you mods move it there please, thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just stop talking to her, when(if) she calls tell her youre busy. Find other girls and move on.
 

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yes I know Iam supposed to stop calling her and hit on other girls on the side, but should I still break up with her?I dont want to break up with her yet cause we still hadnt made out too much nor fooled around. I want to break up with her mostly cause I think shes an attention ***** cause she still keeps contact with her ex´s and keeps talking about them, and she never bothers to even call me.
 

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You said you two were only dating right? Meaning it wasnt a relationship??
 

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It is a relationship, she´s my girlfriend.
---(mods, can you please move this topic to " don juan discussion" please.Its just that I want to get more people´s opinions, thanks)---
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell her you both need a break, test out the water LMAO.
 

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I dont know about having a break, Id rather just dump her, she´s going to a concert in another city like in a week and she says that her friend, knows the singer( the one that will be singing at the concert, hes a total AFC that sings romantic songs) and that he will introduce the singer to my gf, so Im guessing she will be all over him lol Ill just dump her, de una ves.
 
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