"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok so recently ive hooked up with this girl I was dating from university. She got back from visiting her mom in another city and shes been showing me low interest. When she was away I called her somedays but she never called me, not once and didnt return my calls. Now that shes back in town, She doesnt return my calls either. LIke tonight I called her and she said oh Im on the the other line talking , can I call you back and I said sure, but she never called back, fvcking *****. Plus she always keeps talking about her ex´s and they keep calling her. I told her to tell them to fvck off and she says that she already did but they dont care and keep calling anyways, BS. I know Im gonna have to break up with her cause she seems like a complete Attention Wh0re to me, what do you guys think?any ideas on what I should do?Oh BTW Im breaking up with her sometime this week before oct. 9 cause that´s her birthday, and if im breaking up with her anyways, I would do so before her birthday , so that I dont hafto spend money on a gift hahah. **** I just realized I would get more responses if this were in the don juan discussion, can any of you mods move it there please, thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just stop talking to her, when(if) she calls tell her youre busy. Find other girls and move on.
 

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yes I know Iam supposed to stop calling her and hit on other girls on the side, but should I still break up with her?I dont want to break up with her yet cause we still hadnt made out too much nor fooled around. I want to break up with her mostly cause I think shes an attention ***** cause she still keeps contact with her ex´s and keeps talking about them, and she never bothers to even call me.
 

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You said you two were only dating right? Meaning it wasnt a relationship??
 

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It is a relationship, she´s my girlfriend.
---(mods, can you please move this topic to " don juan discussion" please.Its just that I want to get more people´s opinions, thanks)---
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tell her you both need a break, test out the water LMAO.
 

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I dont know about having a break, Id rather just dump her, she´s going to a concert in another city like in a week and she says that her friend, knows the singer( the one that will be singing at the concert, hes a total AFC that sings romantic songs) and that he will introduce the singer to my gf, so Im guessing she will be all over him lol Ill just dump her, de una ves.
 
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