This kinda **** is way too hot to be talked from one point of view only.
---While being with somebody for a quite long time, you become responsible for that person no matter what kinda feelings have evolved towards him/her. Cos being close friends is about caring for each other, making sure that your friend doesn't experience pain, sadness and other negative feelings (that's one of the reasons why friends are being called FRIENDS, isn't it?).
But when your gf/bf seems to have developed much stronger feelings towards you that you feel for him/her, the situation gets a very uneasy flavour of crap (sorry for such rude comparisions). That doesn't mean that a way thinking called
"Oh, she feels a completely different way that I do. Hmmh... Isn't this whole **** her own damn problem. I didn't ask her to start loving me, after all. To hell with these sobbing *****. I got my own ****ing life, which IS MY LIFE, WHICH BELONGS TO ME ONLY, NOT HER. **** ya'll!" shouldn't be developed, but man, you're ruining her. It's you who decided to cut things out, and it ain't a big problem of yours, but saying "IT'S OVA FOR GOOD" doesn't give you the right to leave your friends in pain. Yes, she's gonna deal with that in the long run, but hey, she needs your support. As a friend, at least. If you feel that things are really over, they have to be given a final finishing. For the both of you. This pain is SO ****ing hard to overcome, and YOU really gotta make the end as smoother and not escallated as you can.
Even if it ain't the feelings that YOU feel.
