"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Breaking two people up. By accident.

Cabal

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So I met this girl in a fast food chain behind the counter. Hot. I strike up some game. Get her name.

A few days later I'm there again. More game. I get her number.

We start texting. I keep a rule, for every hour I wait, she waits two. For every two texts she sends, I send one. You get the idea.

So we end up in some pretty dirty texting territory and I decide it's time to shyt or get off the pod and arrange a meeting. I then find out quite co-incidentally she's dumped her boyfriend today (we're meeting tomorrow). I didn't even know he existed.

So in like less than a month I've broke two people up by accident. Not sure how to feel about that. Maybe I don't deserve all the credit, as good as my game has gotten lately she obviously hasn't been wet for her other half for sometime.

Obviously this girl has knocked herself out of the box as far as girlfriend material goes straight away.

But should I still tap that?

My penis and my principals are clouding each others judgement.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Atom Smasher

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You're in the clear.

First, you didn't know about the boyfriend. Second, she was going to leave him anyway. Third, it's a little premature for a branch swing on her part because she really hasn't been with you yet, so her relationship with that guy was hanging by a thread.

And this is coming from someone who is dead-set against going after a girl who already has a boyfriend unless her relationship is clearly doomed to fail anyway.

The only thing I'd be concerned about is where her head is at since she's a rebounder.
 

Desdinova

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Women will have no problem ditching their ever-so-loyal and faithful (boring) bf for a guy who offers to provide some fun and excitement into her life.

In this case (and likely the last one) it was just a matter of time and the right guy to help her make the decision to start fresh. The right guy is you.

It's nothing to feel bad about. Most attractive women are going to have bfs in their lives. To get the woman you want, you need to cater to her womanly needs more than her bf does. When you do that, she will leave him quite easily.
 
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