"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Breaking two people up. By accident.

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So I met this girl in a fast food chain behind the counter. Hot. I strike up some game. Get her name.

A few days later I'm there again. More game. I get her number.

We start texting. I keep a rule, for every hour I wait, she waits two. For every two texts she sends, I send one. You get the idea.

So we end up in some pretty dirty texting territory and I decide it's time to shyt or get off the pod and arrange a meeting. I then find out quite co-incidentally she's dumped her boyfriend today (we're meeting tomorrow). I didn't even know he existed.

So in like less than a month I've broke two people up by accident. Not sure how to feel about that. Maybe I don't deserve all the credit, as good as my game has gotten lately she obviously hasn't been wet for her other half for sometime.

Obviously this girl has knocked herself out of the box as far as girlfriend material goes straight away.

But should I still tap that?

My penis and my principals are clouding each others judgement.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Atom Smasher

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You're in the clear.

First, you didn't know about the boyfriend. Second, she was going to leave him anyway. Third, it's a little premature for a branch swing on her part because she really hasn't been with you yet, so her relationship with that guy was hanging by a thread.

And this is coming from someone who is dead-set against going after a girl who already has a boyfriend unless her relationship is clearly doomed to fail anyway.

The only thing I'd be concerned about is where her head is at since she's a rebounder.
 
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Women will have no problem ditching their ever-so-loyal and faithful (boring) bf for a guy who offers to provide some fun and excitement into her life.

In this case (and likely the last one) it was just a matter of time and the right guy to help her make the decision to start fresh. The right guy is you.

It's nothing to feel bad about. Most attractive women are going to have bfs in their lives. To get the woman you want, you need to cater to her womanly needs more than her bf does. When you do that, she will leave him quite easily.
 
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