"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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breaking the ice at the bar?

danthemann

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so tonight me and a good friend of mine are hitting the local college bars and im wondering if anyone here has any pointers or suggestions on how to break the ice with a group of chicks. obviously you need to not be chicken shvt but most of these girls roll in groups of at least 3-4+, so if you were going out with a wingman tonight how would you guys go about getting these girls comfortable enough with you after the approach and such?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tiguere

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Outcome independence.... Go out to meet new people. If they happen to be girls then bonus.
 

Ronaldo7

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To introduce yourself : " I am the most interesting man in the world, but you can also call me (your name)."
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Ronaldo7 said:
To introduce yourself : " I am the most interesting man in the world, but you can also call me (your name)."
Wow. That's a bad one. Never use that line to anyone who isn't your grandmother.
 

Ronaldo7

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It depends how you carry yourself, mon ami.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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