"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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breaking the ice at the bar?

danthemann

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so tonight me and a good friend of mine are hitting the local college bars and im wondering if anyone here has any pointers or suggestions on how to break the ice with a group of chicks. obviously you need to not be chicken shvt but most of these girls roll in groups of at least 3-4+, so if you were going out with a wingman tonight how would you guys go about getting these girls comfortable enough with you after the approach and such?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tiguere

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Outcome independence.... Go out to meet new people. If they happen to be girls then bonus.
 

Ronaldo7

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To introduce yourself : " I am the most interesting man in the world, but you can also call me (your name)."
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Ronaldo7 said:
To introduce yourself : " I am the most interesting man in the world, but you can also call me (your name)."
Wow. That's a bad one. Never use that line to anyone who isn't your grandmother.
 

Ronaldo7

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It depends how you carry yourself, mon ami.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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