"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Breaking the habit

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wavejams007

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Seeing as others are leaving the forum and breaking the habit of using the site(especially as a crutch) I think that I am going to try and go without the site, I mean I have learned alot of what I needed to learn, and now I am going to go out on my own, and get of this usefull site. While I may still check in, I probably won't answer much for a good long while. Another reason for breaking off is like InsidiousINstinct did a little while ago. My life needs some fine tuning, and I need to concentrate on that . So wish me luck.

Good Luck to all you DJs and DJs-in-the-making.:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Layla

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Yeah me too- starting right now :: puts on invisible mode:: :D

I dont think im ready to leave yet. I have to give back more before i go.
Good luck. on your life.
 
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bob246

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You know what, im off too.

Im going on a long, long journey.
 
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Fender

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I think this site has become an addiction in itself. It was originally designed to make better men outta us...and look what it has done to some of us. Turned us into some kinda half cyborg....god bless you all:)
 
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