"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Breaking the habit

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wavejams007

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Seeing as others are leaving the forum and breaking the habit of using the site(especially as a crutch) I think that I am going to try and go without the site, I mean I have learned alot of what I needed to learn, and now I am going to go out on my own, and get of this usefull site. While I may still check in, I probably won't answer much for a good long while. Another reason for breaking off is like InsidiousINstinct did a little while ago. My life needs some fine tuning, and I need to concentrate on that . So wish me luck.

Good Luck to all you DJs and DJs-in-the-making.:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Layla

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Yeah me too- starting right now :: puts on invisible mode:: :D

I dont think im ready to leave yet. I have to give back more before i go.
Good luck. on your life.
 
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bob246

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You know what, im off too.

Im going on a long, long journey.
 
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Fender

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I think this site has become an addiction in itself. It was originally designed to make better men outta us...and look what it has done to some of us. Turned us into some kinda half cyborg....god bless you all:)
 
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