"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Columbus Myth

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Well the title says alot but ill put more detail

ever since i can rember ive always been one of the those people who just wants everything to come natural

ive always felt that destiny was the only way to grab girls
ive always wanted a 'novel' relationship

for awhile i ditched the habit and left my comfort zone and started to get out there

but after the winter break it just all fell apart
everything i had learned and practiced
all the confidness i had left

i felt like i lost my purpose
my will to go chase girls
to have a life

and just as all this is starting my life falls apart
my cell fone disappears and along with it my week ends and my connection to my friends
i get grounded for my grades (still am :whistle: shouldnt be on rite now)



ive gone bak to just being a dream obessed romantic


well im back here on my knees begging for some help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How is the loss of your phone and being grounded for your grades your life falling apart? 90% of people in the world look for food everyday....

Anyway, just pick yourself up and try again...
 
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by saying life im saying my life since i joined here
that stuff and amoung other stuff my lifes just turning bak into the hell it was last year
 
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Read the damn bible. You think you're going to get anywhere by moping?

If you break your bike 20 miles away from home after you fell. Is crying going to get you home? Is moping about going to get you anywhere? No, you will be stuck there and eventually starve to death. You gotta pick it up and starting walking home. Once you get home, start thinking about the mistakes you made and why your bike broke, and how you are going to avoid those.

Read my katana post I made it for people who are in the early stages.
 
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