"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Breaking the Habit for the hopeless romantic

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Well the title says alot but ill put more detail

ever since i can rember ive always been one of the those people who just wants everything to come natural

ive always felt that destiny was the only way to grab girls
ive always wanted a 'novel' relationship

for awhile i ditched the habit and left my comfort zone and started to get out there

but after the winter break it just all fell apart
everything i had learned and practiced
all the confidness i had left

i felt like i lost my purpose
my will to go chase girls
to have a life

and just as all this is starting my life falls apart
my cell fone disappears and along with it my week ends and my connection to my friends
i get grounded for my grades (still am :whistle: shouldnt be on rite now)



ive gone bak to just being a dream obessed romantic


well im back here on my knees begging for some help
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How is the loss of your phone and being grounded for your grades your life falling apart? 90% of people in the world look for food everyday....

Anyway, just pick yourself up and try again...
 
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by saying life im saying my life since i joined here
that stuff and amoung other stuff my lifes just turning bak into the hell it was last year
 

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Read the damn bible. You think you're going to get anywhere by moping?

If you break your bike 20 miles away from home after you fell. Is crying going to get you home? Is moping about going to get you anywhere? No, you will be stuck there and eventually starve to death. You gotta pick it up and starting walking home. Once you get home, start thinking about the mistakes you made and why your bike broke, and how you are going to avoid those.

Read my katana post I made it for people who are in the early stages.
 
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