"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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breaking that fawkin mental-mold shes got?

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I knwo this FINE chick[HB8.5..dancer;)] but shes one of those girls that has it in she won't hookup with anyone but the guy whose her boyfriend. Shes single right now..n i'm trying to get some play. N tomorrow my rents r gone n I'm gonna try n invite her over[my little bro is home still lol hope he doesn't tell my rents "Pats gettin *****"] but..I'mn to ehr boyfriend.
N i want this liek alst 10 days of summer single. Plus i'm not into askin chicks ot be my gf..not my style.
So how do you break ehr mental-mold man? She and i have some pretty good kino[she sall over me..but then when my hand brushed hers, she'd move it away n pretend it didn't happen:confused:] but I wanna get some poon man :p
As far as I can tell, shes a DJ. But shes not too good at it. So is there anything you'd do to try n get her to open up to you withotu being ur gf?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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read the DJ bible
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clue... If your hand bumps hers and she moves her hand away that's a pretty good indication that she's not very interested in you. So you say "I think she's a DJ but not a very good one." Well obviously a bit better than you my friend. Up your game or lower your standards, you're going nowhere this way.
 

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minutes later shes got her arms wrapped around me with my arm around her waste. That happen O mmaybe 5 tiems throught a 20 minute period when we were standing otuside. She laughs at everything I say, and hell she invited me to dinner with her friends of who I only know 2[and there was 11 of us in the group]. At the end of the school year lasty year, we were holding hands everytime we'd run into eachother. :D[I've only seen her once since school, and i got loads fo good signs. the hand movign was the onyl bad sign. I wasn't trying to hodl hands anyways].
so no, I do think she is interested .
And thats ok. I'm takings advanced courses this year, I have already worked my ass of on grammar ans such for summer projects.
You understood it, so I guess i didn't fail.
 
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I wasn't trying to burn you with my post so dont get me wrong, but you have some AFC qualities there. Are you paying her too much attention? Maybe she's not advancing because she doesn't have to, so make her. Good Luck with it, hope you get what you want.
 

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Seems like you are recepting any type of advance she is giving you...which is probably common among most guys. Show some restraint. If she is so into you...make a move.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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