"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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breaking that fawkin mental-mold shes got?

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I knwo this FINE chick[HB8.5..dancer;)] but shes one of those girls that has it in she won't hookup with anyone but the guy whose her boyfriend. Shes single right now..n i'm trying to get some play. N tomorrow my rents r gone n I'm gonna try n invite her over[my little bro is home still lol hope he doesn't tell my rents "Pats gettin *****"] but..I'mn to ehr boyfriend.
N i want this liek alst 10 days of summer single. Plus i'm not into askin chicks ot be my gf..not my style.
So how do you break ehr mental-mold man? She and i have some pretty good kino[she sall over me..but then when my hand brushed hers, she'd move it away n pretend it didn't happen:confused:] but I wanna get some poon man :p
As far as I can tell, shes a DJ. But shes not too good at it. So is there anything you'd do to try n get her to open up to you withotu being ur gf?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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read the DJ bible
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clue... If your hand bumps hers and she moves her hand away that's a pretty good indication that she's not very interested in you. So you say "I think she's a DJ but not a very good one." Well obviously a bit better than you my friend. Up your game or lower your standards, you're going nowhere this way.
 

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minutes later shes got her arms wrapped around me with my arm around her waste. That happen O mmaybe 5 tiems throught a 20 minute period when we were standing otuside. She laughs at everything I say, and hell she invited me to dinner with her friends of who I only know 2[and there was 11 of us in the group]. At the end of the school year lasty year, we were holding hands everytime we'd run into eachother. :D[I've only seen her once since school, and i got loads fo good signs. the hand movign was the onyl bad sign. I wasn't trying to hodl hands anyways].
so no, I do think she is interested .
And thats ok. I'm takings advanced courses this year, I have already worked my ass of on grammar ans such for summer projects.
You understood it, so I guess i didn't fail.
 
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I wasn't trying to burn you with my post so dont get me wrong, but you have some AFC qualities there. Are you paying her too much attention? Maybe she's not advancing because she doesn't have to, so make her. Good Luck with it, hope you get what you want.
 

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Seems like you are recepting any type of advance she is giving you...which is probably common among most guys. Show some restraint. If she is so into you...make a move.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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