Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I think you had oneitis for a chick and thought she liked you for 'who you are' and then got hurt because she basically dumped you, rejected you, flaked on you, etc. At least, considering your thread history, it does make it seem like that, to me anyways.
When you get mad like you are gonna kill somebody, go hit a punching bag or something. I have one in my basement and start knocking the crap out of it when I do get pissed. It rarely happens anymore. But when I do, I literally end up tired as crap with bloody knuckles. It helps.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
If a women does not love you for who you are, then you have not found the right woman. Keep looking... if after looking and searching, if you are not attracted to the women you can attract, then improve yourself.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Always remember, women will ALWAYS gravitate to men they are attracted to. You want a better quality of woman, then you need to be a better quality of man.