"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Breaking point for a DJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I think you had oneitis for a chick and thought she liked you for 'who you are' and then got hurt because she basically dumped you, rejected you, flaked on you, etc. At least, considering your thread history, it does make it seem like that, to me anyways.
When you get mad like you are gonna kill somebody, go hit a punching bag or something. I have one in my basement and start knocking the crap out of it when I do get pissed. It rarely happens anymore. But when I do, I literally end up tired as crap with bloody knuckles. It helps.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
If a women does not love you for who you are, then you have not found the right woman. Keep looking... if after looking and searching, if you are not attracted to the women you can attract, then improve yourself.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Always remember, women will ALWAYS gravitate to men they are attracted to. You want a better quality of woman, then you need to be a better quality of man.