"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Breaking point for a DJ
- Thread starter mikey2012
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dhoulmagus
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I think you had oneitis for a chick and thought she liked you for 'who you are' and then got hurt because she basically dumped you, rejected you, flaked on you, etc. At least, considering your thread history, it does make it seem like that, to me anyways.
When you get mad like you are gonna kill somebody, go hit a punching bag or something. I have one in my basement and start knocking the crap out of it when I do get pissed. It rarely happens anymore. But when I do, I literally end up tired as crap with bloody knuckles. It helps.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
If a women does not love you for who you are, then you have not found the right woman. Keep looking... if after looking and searching, if you are not attracted to the women you can attract, then improve yourself.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Always remember, women will ALWAYS gravitate to men they are attracted to. You want a better quality of woman, then you need to be a better quality of man.