"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Breaking out of a dry spell

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mike465

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So I'm in a bit of a rut at the moment to say the least...

After a fantastic 2013 in terms of women (minus the oneitis I had with a girl around June) I haven't had sex in 2014 yet....

I still speak to girls and kiss them etc but I've just lost the ability to close the deal. It used to be so easy.

Basically the point of this thread is to get your ideas and views on how you guys personally pick yourselves up out of a dry spell with girls.

I'm going out tomorrow night but right now I have little motivation due my **** results with girls lately.
When I'm in the groove I find that my confidence is sky high and it has a knock on effect and I attract more girls and do even better.

So how can I get the ball rolling again and what do you guys do if you ever have this scenario?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The girl I spoke of in my FR was the first full close for me in a couple months, since things came to an (another, final) end with a lt girl I was with. I basically didn't keep track of how long it's been, and had small physical interactions here and there, but basically for me I just keep the surety and amusement, and get out there until I get it the fvck in.
 
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MINDSET!

There is no dry spell! You are choosing to be in this state.

Mentally, all women want you. That's the view. You don't need or care for their advances, you can have anyone at anytime. This is not a deluded view of reality but a mindset that protects your game. It actually creates opportunity and how reality plays out. It's a state of heightened readyness, alertness, projecting your infinite Don Juanness. BOOM!

Intention creates everything. Mind is powerful. It runs your life. Control it.

If you believe in lack, you will see it everywhere. If you believe in abundance, it literally comes to you from everywhere.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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