"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Breaking out of a dry spell

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mike465

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So I'm in a bit of a rut at the moment to say the least...

After a fantastic 2013 in terms of women (minus the oneitis I had with a girl around June) I haven't had sex in 2014 yet....

I still speak to girls and kiss them etc but I've just lost the ability to close the deal. It used to be so easy.

Basically the point of this thread is to get your ideas and views on how you guys personally pick yourselves up out of a dry spell with girls.

I'm going out tomorrow night but right now I have little motivation due my **** results with girls lately.
When I'm in the groove I find that my confidence is sky high and it has a knock on effect and I attract more girls and do even better.

So how can I get the ball rolling again and what do you guys do if you ever have this scenario?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Night-hawk

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The girl I spoke of in my FR was the first full close for me in a couple months, since things came to an (another, final) end with a lt girl I was with. I basically didn't keep track of how long it's been, and had small physical interactions here and there, but basically for me I just keep the surety and amusement, and get out there until I get it the fvck in.
 
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MINDSET!

There is no dry spell! You are choosing to be in this state.

Mentally, all women want you. That's the view. You don't need or care for their advances, you can have anyone at anytime. This is not a deluded view of reality but a mindset that protects your game. It actually creates opportunity and how reality plays out. It's a state of heightened readyness, alertness, projecting your infinite Don Juanness. BOOM!

Intention creates everything. Mind is powerful. It runs your life. Control it.

If you believe in lack, you will see it everywhere. If you believe in abundance, it literally comes to you from everywhere.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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