“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so i recently broke off with this chick... she was amazing sex and pretty much up for anything

i mean anything... 3sums... 4sums... the lot

this chick tried her best to push for a relationship with me... but the fact is, she is a slvt and is not relationship worthy

anyhow around a month ago, ended up in a text argument with her, that got out of hand, plus she flaked on me once or twice...

so i nexted her... she sent me loads of insulting text messages.. she seemed bitter...

anyhow i,m kinda missing banging this chick, she was a total freak sexualy

she was not my girlfreind & defo not the kind of girl you can trust or get emotionaly involved with


in this situation, is it worth it to break no contact & see if she is interested in meeting for sex???


or remain no contact, and let her contact me, if and when she chooses to??


there is a strong possibility she may ignore my text message, or she could be f@cking some other dude now
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I guess there's no harm in contacting her and seeing if she even wants to talk to you.

don't start a fwb thing unless she's cool with it this time though.
 

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I don't believe in the idea that there are "kinds" of women.

Just text her something simple and shallow and see if she responds.
 

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One last random text, like "I'm starting to think you might not love me anymore" can't hurt, but she sounds like a stripper, and a bad one.
 

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the title of this thread is just wrong, and hilarious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil said:
One last random text, like "I'm starting to think you might not love me anymore" can't hurt, but she sounds like a stripper, and a bad one.

haha that would be a fun text to send her...lol

she aint a stripper, but defo a confirmed slvt... she fvcked me within 2 hours of first talking to her on pof

she even bought a dildo & lube to my house on the first meet...

i know she is defo defo not worthy of a relationship... but i think she makes a great f@ck buddy

anyhow, not sure if i shoud text her & try to keep her in rotation, or just let it go
 

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Do. Not. Do. That.
 

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the answer to everything seems to be NEXT the these days lol

only 2 options here

either i text her & see if she is still interested... probably get ignored

or NEXT and if she texts me at some point in the future... i reel her back in, as a
fucck buddy
 

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defo missing the sex with this chick, got another plate going... but the sex with previous chick was on another level

maybe i should text her, and see if i get a response... she is worth keeping on board strictly as a f@ck buddy... relationship is out of the question, as she is defo a slut
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dildo and lube on the first date? are you mad?

why on earth you would next a sure thing slut is anyone's guess. as long as you don't try to wife her up, you should be good.
 

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dildo and lube on the first date? are you mad?

why on earth you would next a sure thing slut is anyone's guess. as long as you don't try to wife her up, you should be good.

i didn't next her... we had a argument, and she over reacted and dis respected me ... she created some f@cking drama over nothing

so we stopped talking
 

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she stopped contacting me, so i didnt want to be chasing her... so i let this plate go
 

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cliffs' notes:

OP is horny and wants to bang a hot slut again.

Go for it OP. What's the worst that could happen? Don't knock her up, don't get thrown in jail, and don't get your d*ck chopped off. Follow those guidelines and you'll be fine. Doesn't seem like you have oneitis for the b*tch, you just want some freaky poon. I don't see the harm in that.

Only problem is, I've never had success going back to a prior slut. They've all thrown conditions on it like I had to take 'em out to dinner, I had to buy 'em something, I had to travel a long distance, I had to do X Y Z....

Once a slut cools down I don't think you can heat her back up again. At least not easily, and frankly who wants to work that hard for a slut?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zarky said:
cliffs' notes:

OP is horny and wants to bang a hot slut again.

Go for it OP. What's the worst that could happen? Don't knock her up, don't get thrown in jail, and don't get your d*ck chopped off. Follow those guidelines and you'll be fine. Doesn't seem like you have oneitis for the b*tch, you just want some freaky poon. I don't see the harm in that.

Only problem is, I've never had success going back to a prior slut. They've all thrown conditions on it like I had to take 'em out to dinner, I had to buy 'em something, I had to travel a long distance, I had to do X Y Z....

Once a slut cools down I don't think you can heat her back up again. At least not easily, and frankly who wants to work that hard for a slut?

here is the thing... i have got another plate at the moment... damn this girl is good looking.. smoking hot body... but.... she isn't that great in the sexual department

i mean she is not the freaky type... she looks good on my arm & thats about it really


but... the last chick i broke up with... damn this slvt was a complete freak..

she was up for 3sums... 4 sums... was happy to let me and another dude bang her at the same time!

she would even drink my urine straight from my c@ck haha... she liked & enjoyed bieng treated like a *****, and submissive too


anyhow.. she is a straight up sl@t... not worthy of a relatinship..

so things got f@ked up... we argued, said some ****tty things to each other & not spoke again... been around 2 months now


so what do i have to lose? if i contact her & she ignores me, then f@ck it... it's not like i lost a girlfreind.. or a future wife


if she does respond, then hey i could maybe pull this slutt back in... and keep her around as a plate


either way... what is there to lose????

in this situation i really don't think no contact will work or bring her back

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