"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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breaking no contact with a slut

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so i recently broke off with this chick... she was amazing sex and pretty much up for anything

i mean anything... 3sums... 4sums... the lot

this chick tried her best to push for a relationship with me... but the fact is, she is a slvt and is not relationship worthy

anyhow around a month ago, ended up in a text argument with her, that got out of hand, plus she flaked on me once or twice...

so i nexted her... she sent me loads of insulting text messages.. she seemed bitter...

anyhow i,m kinda missing banging this chick, she was a total freak sexualy

she was not my girlfreind & defo not the kind of girl you can trust or get emotionaly involved with


in this situation, is it worth it to break no contact & see if she is interested in meeting for sex???


or remain no contact, and let her contact me, if and when she chooses to??


there is a strong possibility she may ignore my text message, or she could be f@cking some other dude now
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I guess there's no harm in contacting her and seeing if she even wants to talk to you.

don't start a fwb thing unless she's cool with it this time though.
 

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I don't believe in the idea that there are "kinds" of women.

Just text her something simple and shallow and see if she responds.
 

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One last random text, like "I'm starting to think you might not love me anymore" can't hurt, but she sounds like a stripper, and a bad one.
 

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the title of this thread is just wrong, and hilarious.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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soulforge

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bigneil said:
One last random text, like "I'm starting to think you might not love me anymore" can't hurt, but she sounds like a stripper, and a bad one.

haha that would be a fun text to send her...lol

she aint a stripper, but defo a confirmed slvt... she fvcked me within 2 hours of first talking to her on pof

she even bought a dildo & lube to my house on the first meet...

i know she is defo defo not worthy of a relationship... but i think she makes a great f@ck buddy

anyhow, not sure if i shoud text her & try to keep her in rotation, or just let it go
 

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Do. Not. Do. That.
 

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the answer to everything seems to be NEXT the these days lol

only 2 options here

either i text her & see if she is still interested... probably get ignored

or NEXT and if she texts me at some point in the future... i reel her back in, as a
fucck buddy
 

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defo missing the sex with this chick, got another plate going... but the sex with previous chick was on another level

maybe i should text her, and see if i get a response... she is worth keeping on board strictly as a f@ck buddy... relationship is out of the question, as she is defo a slut
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dildo and lube on the first date? are you mad?

why on earth you would next a sure thing slut is anyone's guess. as long as you don't try to wife her up, you should be good.
 

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dildo and lube on the first date? are you mad?

why on earth you would next a sure thing slut is anyone's guess. as long as you don't try to wife her up, you should be good.

i didn't next her... we had a argument, and she over reacted and dis respected me ... she created some f@cking drama over nothing

so we stopped talking
 

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she stopped contacting me, so i didnt want to be chasing her... so i let this plate go
 

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cliffs' notes:

OP is horny and wants to bang a hot slut again.

Go for it OP. What's the worst that could happen? Don't knock her up, don't get thrown in jail, and don't get your d*ck chopped off. Follow those guidelines and you'll be fine. Doesn't seem like you have oneitis for the b*tch, you just want some freaky poon. I don't see the harm in that.

Only problem is, I've never had success going back to a prior slut. They've all thrown conditions on it like I had to take 'em out to dinner, I had to buy 'em something, I had to travel a long distance, I had to do X Y Z....

Once a slut cools down I don't think you can heat her back up again. At least not easily, and frankly who wants to work that hard for a slut?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zarky said:
cliffs' notes:

OP is horny and wants to bang a hot slut again.

Go for it OP. What's the worst that could happen? Don't knock her up, don't get thrown in jail, and don't get your d*ck chopped off. Follow those guidelines and you'll be fine. Doesn't seem like you have oneitis for the b*tch, you just want some freaky poon. I don't see the harm in that.

Only problem is, I've never had success going back to a prior slut. They've all thrown conditions on it like I had to take 'em out to dinner, I had to buy 'em something, I had to travel a long distance, I had to do X Y Z....

Once a slut cools down I don't think you can heat her back up again. At least not easily, and frankly who wants to work that hard for a slut?

here is the thing... i have got another plate at the moment... damn this girl is good looking.. smoking hot body... but.... she isn't that great in the sexual department

i mean she is not the freaky type... she looks good on my arm & thats about it really


but... the last chick i broke up with... damn this slvt was a complete freak..

she was up for 3sums... 4 sums... was happy to let me and another dude bang her at the same time!

she would even drink my urine straight from my c@ck haha... she liked & enjoyed bieng treated like a *****, and submissive too


anyhow.. she is a straight up sl@t... not worthy of a relatinship..

so things got f@ked up... we argued, said some ****tty things to each other & not spoke again... been around 2 months now


so what do i have to lose? if i contact her & she ignores me, then f@ck it... it's not like i lost a girlfreind.. or a future wife


if she does respond, then hey i could maybe pull this slutt back in... and keep her around as a plate


either way... what is there to lose????

in this situation i really don't think no contact will work or bring her back

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