"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Breaking her ties?

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Ajbobtom

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Okay so there is this girl I have been trying to get with. She is the type of girl that I would like to see where things go, good or bad.

For the background information this is it: She was with this jock type guy for close to 8 months. They recently broke up for what ever reason. She said that he wont take her back. I told her she is really attached to him. She said that she is trying to be 100% devoted to him. Even though she cheated on him (with me). She also said he is pestering her for sex, which just adds fuel to the fire here.

So I want to know what you guys think I should try to get this girl. I was thinking of playing her up with, 'Hey lets make him jealous, and he will come back' type of thing. I took into account if he does come back that it may end. So this is an experiment to the end. If it ends badly okay, lesson learned, if not how can I apply this further?

So tell me what you think I should do to get this girl. I want to know how to break this stupid 'obsession' with this guy and any other guy that may come up in the future.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No. That sounds like you think he's better than you so you're underhanded. I'd be better than that guy and it would be her trying to manipulate me into being jealous (probably what she is doing to you) so I'd just be sexy as. Then I'd say something suave like "Hey, screw him."

EDIT: I'd calibrate though.
 
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