"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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breaking girls' friendships with each other

ItWasntMe

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Chance are that I'm going to sound full of myself when you read this so if I do just try to look past that as I'm just trying to give you guys an idea of myself.

You know how one of the top rules or w/e of Don Juan-ism is not to be yourself? Well I'm naturally everything you're supposed to act like. This has been great because I've got girls by the boatload (I normally have 10+- that I'm close to without officially dating but they're not sluts or anything). Unfortunately me being myself got these 2 girls in a fight. They're best friends and they're both a year older than me and unfortunately they were both fighting for me. Well it was at the point where they start telling me about the other's secrets and other stuff I shouldn't know. I thought that if I just stayed out of it they'd solve their problems on their own but they just went for each others' necks. In the end I just told them that I liked them both and couldn't possibly choose one over the other to save their friendship. I still talk to them occasionally but not really..

I'm just curious as to whether I made the right decision or not. What would have you guys done? Should I have just kept going with both of them with them freaking out at each other or just said fvck it and walked away like I did.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Axcell

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Wow.
I was in this situation a little while ago, not quite, but something very similar so I look forward to seeing what other people post.
Anyway, I feel you dealt with the situation rather well... there is not too much you can do when you are put in the spotlight like that. If you choose one girl over the other, it will lead to that other girl bad-mouthing you to her other friends and vice versa.
By walking away, you avoided drama in the near future - girls are all about drama and you need to man up and let them know that is NOT okay to put all their drama in your life.
 

Plec07

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^Agreed - I think you made the right choice, especially if you have girls left, right and centre drooling over you.
 
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