"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Breaking Bonaduce"

Mr_knowit_all

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If any of you have seen this show, you know what a pathetic, "macho", ass kissing piece of garbage Danny Bonaduce is.

He is the epitome of what to NOT act like with a woman. Before your very eyes, you can see the behavior that drives women away. His marriage is crumbling, and he doesn't understand that acting jealous and begging for forgiveness are the main causes. (A long with his alleged rampant alcoholism and possible drug use)

I suggest you guys check this show out on VH-1.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Good show. When lucid, Danny is actually very insightful. Unfortunately he always seems to need some type of reassurance from his wife who has forsaken her life for him. He always seems to need to be in control of his surroundings as if to validate himself. When he doesn't get his way he goes completely AMOG even ripping off his shirt at times to posture himself. Kinda makes sense why he felt like he needed to take steroids. Talk about a good example of a guy who has lost complete control of himself.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Good show. When lucid, Danny is actually very insightful. Unfortunately he always seems to need some type of reassurance from his wife who has forsaken her life for him. He always seems to need to be in control of his surroundings as if to validate himself. When he doesn't get his way he goes completely AMOG even ripping off his shirt at times to posture himself. Kinda makes sense why he felt like he needed to take steroids. Talk about a good example of a guy who has lost complete control of himself.
I think Danny is a classic example of "short man syndrome". He's only 5'6, and instead of being comfortable with himself, he became an expert in the martial arts and started using steroids to pump up.

I think your observation about him needing to be in control is quite accurate. Behind all that alpha male posturing, I think Danny is a very insecure guy. I do agree that he is extremely insightful and quite intelligent.
 
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