"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Breaking a rut of laziness

JohnChops

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Since I broke my right hand I've been in a lazy rut. No gym no studying. I've been tired and sleep all day, what a waste of time! How the hell do I break this? Here's what I got so far: gym (cardio/legs) on the morning to jump start me. I feel like without the gym I miss that endorphin release.... Anyway I need to formulate a schedule or something. How do you guys do it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Daily Insanity

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Will power, very strong will power and a purpose. No advice here will help you. You have to decide that it's time to get your lazy a$$ up and do something with your life before you start gaining fat and looking like a gay nerd about to fart.
 

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if it was me, I'd be working on one handed pistol shooting. I cut my trigger finger just before shipping out for nam, so I started very serious practice with the other hand! :) Then it turned out that I went to Korea instead.
 

JohnChops

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twentee said:
if it was me, I'd be working on one handed pistol shooting. I cut my trigger finger just before shipping out for nam, so I started very serious practice with the other hand! :) Then it turned out that I went to Korea instead.
goundra, do you think about anything else besides guns lol
 

backseatjuan

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Travel to some place.

If you don't want to travel alone come hang out with me, just buy tickets to AER airport, we'll hang out here, ski, drink, and bang some hoes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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