Breakeup query

[Peaboto]

For those of you who have followed my story here is the final question. During an argument we had at the end of June my ex tried to hit me with a cutting board, a large pot and a ladle filled with gravy. Inorder to both protect myself and prevent her from causing damage I wrestled those items one by one from her. She claimed later that I twisted her hand so hard that I caused nerve damage. She went to a doctor and was put on physical therapy. I apologized but pointed out that I did not hit her and was only trying to disarm her. However, I have been paying for the therapy. Now last night I told her that we should go our separate ways and the last thing she said to me was that she wanted money to pay for her continued therapy and that I should give her a lump sum by Sunday. I told her that she should assume some responsibility for once in her life and that I won't be paying her anything. My logic - why should I pay for defending myself and haven't I paid enough (she's going for therapy twice a week since the last week of June).
Any feedback from members as to whether I am right or wrong will be appreciated.

 

[cA^]

If you dont think you should pay for it, then dont.

simple as that really, sounds like she is trying to milk you for all your worth - dont take any of it.

Move on and let the ***** pay for herself, as your not responsable for it.

:cheer:

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by Peaboto
.....pay for her continued therapy and that I should give her a lump sum by Sunday.

1)haw much is it?

2)you shouldn't have been paying for it in the first place. If you can kill a person in self defence, then shure enough you can restrain one if in danger of getting hit with a pan of gravey. (as long as you used reasonable force. You probably did, since she was your g/f and you had no intention of hurting her)

3)consult a layer. Your g/f has problems and she will try and hurt you BIG TIME.

 

[Keeper]

Re: Re: Breakeup query

3)consult a layer. Your g/f has problems and she will try and hurt you BIG TIME.

I second that... this chick isn't gonna let you go that easy.

 

[arlanda]

Stupid *****. Send her to hell

 

[Lost In Translation]

you grab some b*tches wrist to disarm her

you ever had someone grab you wrist ?

did it cause permanent damage ?

what a load of $hit

we live in a world where people sue for everything

they trip over and they sue

they stub a toe and they sue

100 years ago they would get nothing and 100 years ago people would not think of sueing

you trip over the foot path its your own damn fault

some b*tch trying to harm you and you disarm her

DUDE

do the cops pay therapy costs to criminals they wrestle a knife off who is trying to kill them ?

no judge as f*cking weak and stupid as judges are these days would help the criminal

YOUR EX GF IS A CRIMINAL

SHE ASSAULTED YOU

ABILITY + INTENT = ASSAULT

you a sap for paying for her SCAM and yes i smell a SCAM

admit to nothing

the b*tch is faking it

spend the lump sum and get the b*tches legs broken


Lost In Translation

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[spider_007]

I'd even suggest that you contact your lawyer first, before she does. This will give you a huge advantage.

 

[diablo]

AE...

As to whether you should pay her a lump sum, absolutely not. Like others have mentioned, speak to a lawyer before she does.