"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Break-Up Report: My Second Attempt Was Successful

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Yes, I failed witht he first break up attempt

Broke up with her on the phone, told her I wasn't feeling the relationship and it needed to be ended. She stopped me and said "Can you come over" and I said told her to call me back before I left and then told her it was too late. I saw her today because she wanted to talk and she asked me why and I told her theres no reasons and she's a nice girl. She told me she wanted to be with me and told me "Maybe it'll work out later" and then repeated that again after she walked me out to my car. She gave me a hug and I was trying to get into my car. She forced me to kiss her and I guess a last kiss is okay so I gave in.


Then drove off
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Actually this might not work out. She found a way to contact me and I didn't know who it was and I said "Who's this?"

She responded saying that she feels sick and I'm all she had and she'll do anything to make it work out on my terms. . . . . .And please meet up with me tomorrow in school. . . .. . . .
 
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Dante420 said:
Actually this might not work out. She found a way to contact me and I didn't know who it was and I said "Who's this?"

She responded saying that she feels sick and I'm all she had and she'll do anything to make it work out on my terms. . . . . .And please meet up with me tomorrow in school. . . .. . . .
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Why are you breaking up again?
 
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Why are you breaking up again?
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She's a borderline gold digger, never has her own money and has no problem asking for things.

She doesn't go out of her way to please me orally
 
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Dante420 said:
She doesn't go out of her way to please me orally
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LOL :D

If she digs in and tries to get a straight answer out of you, just reply with "I don't think we're a good match." That's all that needs to be said. It doesn't place blame and will be less likely to make her get all vindictive. "We're not a good match". Nothing more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Break Up With Her, She Still Wants Me Back, Then She's on to the Next One

Tells me she's so sad. blah blah

She got a new boyfriend quick, which makes me laugh. Was this girl actually trying to play me?

Then today she comes up to me "Why'd you delete me from Myspace?"

We can be friends but not myspace friends
 
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If she ask again just tell her. "I like blowj0bs. Lot's of em".

I've done it before. It works.
 
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If she ask again just tell her. "I like blowj0bs. Lot's of em".

I've done it before. It works.
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Before you said that, did you know that's the actual reason why I broke up with her?
 
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