"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Break up: Girlfriend and I fought last night at a party, I think i burned a bridge!

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First off, my ex-girlfriend sucked her ex's **** last sunday. During this time we were supposed to get back together. She came home Monday and wanted to be official. I was like okay, because we were getting very close again and I didn't know she's done stuff.

Then i found out about her ex and knew that the relationship was going to end soon. So i played it off and she came home and she sucked my ****. I'm like wow this girls a slvt.

So I'm at a party with her last night. She wanted to leave with these boys to go to another party and I grabbed her shoulders and looked her in the eye and was like, "You going with these guys? Well I don't think it's gonna work out between us". She's like it's over. I'm like okay... good!. Then I get into a drunken yelling match calling her a slvt.

I said things like,

"You are fvcking wack!"

"Slvt! You have fvcking problems"

"Who's d!ck are you sucking tonight, because you sucked mine yesterday and your ex-boyfriends the 2 days ago"

She left for the party with the guys, 2 hours later she's blowing up my phone.

She texted, "Yeah. I ****ed up huge... I acted like a slvt. No lies there"

I responsed with, "K"

Then she's blew up my phone till 5am. I blew her off because i was trying to sleep. She leaves a voicemail saying she can't just end it like this at a party. She said she wanted to get closure.

Should i bother listening for her to get closure? This is my first break up. I'd rather have her speak to me in person. How should situations like this be handled?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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**** that huge slut. get some self-respect for yourself.

Tell her to suck your **** one more time and **** her in the ass and then dump her again.

do asap before u catch anything from her.
 
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Haha she already called me back begging for me! I can't believe that. I thought i burned the bridge...
 
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All I can do is shake my head and think that you two deserve each other.
 
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omgwtfm8 said:
Haha she already called me back begging for me! I can't believe that. I thought i burned the bridge...
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Yeah that's a typical response, she doesn't really want you back, it's a pride thing.

Drive her insane by forgetting about her and meeting new girls, as soon as you feel up to it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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omgwtfm8 said:
Haha she already called me back begging for me! I can't believe that. I thought i burned the bridge...
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You might be smiling now, but the only reason she wants you back is so she can break up with you!! I give it two weeks MAX, before she turns around and tells you she's done with you. This girl is immature and stupid, but really what does that say about you if your willing to keep taking her back.



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