Breadcrumbs from ex's

[cityboy989]

Generally, how do you all interpret breadcrumbs? Obviously they come in different degrees and no two people have the same brain so it's impossible to really know what they're thinking--

But how do you all interpret breadcrumbs after months/years of not speaking? It could be about something trivial, or a well-wish,or a greeting, etc.

To wage guilt? To be the "bigger person?" To be nice? Dipping a toe in the water? To see if you're still on the hook? Prelude for future contact? An ego stroke?

 

[dude99]

Generally, how do you all interpret breadcrumbs? Obviously they come in different degrees and no two people have the same brain so it's impossible to really know what they're thinking--

But how do you all interpret breadcrumbs after months/years of not speaking? It could be about something trivial, or a well-wish,or a greeting, etc.

To wage guilt? To be the "bigger person?" To be nice? Dipping a toe in the water? To see if you're still on the hook? Prelude for future contact? An ego stroke?

When you spin plates, you don't have time for bread crumbs.

 

[Billtx49]

Obviously they come in different degrees and no two people have the same brain so it's impossible to really know what they're thinking--

That’s wxactly right.

 

[resilient]

When you spin plates, you don't have time for bread crumbs.

My bro right here!

 

[Julian]

breadcrumbs are for the pigeons. sorry im an eagle

 

[Trump]

But how do you all interpret breadcrumbs after months/years of not speaking? It could be about something trivial, or a well-wish,or a greeting, etc.

To wage guilt? To be the "bigger person?" To be nice? Dipping a toe in the water? To see if you're still on the hook? Prelude for future contact? An ego stroke?

Be concise and polite.

 

[Roober]

I say give her as much attention as any other new woman. Don't compliment her, don't coddle her, don't act needy, and don't really care. At this point... YOUVE WON!!! She misses you for one reason or another. I am not much for burning bridges, so would be open to hooking up with an ex. She would need to work for it though...

 

[A 3% Percent Man]

Don't fall for the crumbs.
She has to directly or indirectly reach out to you by phone ,text or social media (Likes don't count)
If and when she does
She should come to your place to hang out (For a meeting in Your Bedroom lol) , no taking her out for a date
She has to do all the work since she dumped you

 

[Glassguy]

Any response to her breadcrumbs is a loss.

The best response is no response. Just stay silent. She will either break and show more than breadcrumbs or go away. Both are a win when you think about it and puts YOU in control.

Not responding is hardest, because we can't help ourselves. But if you have any self control it's the best move.

I throw chicks breadcrumbs sometimes and it's always the ones I don't give a fvck about and want to string along.

If you blocked after the breakup like you're supposed to, there can be no breadcrumbs.

 

[Infern0]

Depends on the timeframes and situation.

If she was a reaaal ***** or if you are negativley effected by contact then you dont reply.

If you are in a situation where you wouldn't mind talking to her then just reply and see whats up.

**** isn't black and white, you should be able to weigh it up in your head and dont worry about "losing" like an above poster put, like wtf. Being a DJ is about being authentic and sticking to your values not "winning and losing" interactions with women.

 

[derby1]

above advice is golden you will realise yourself in 2 months time.......GET MULTIPLE WOMEN ON THE GO........but dont tell her that !! it puts you in the mindset where your the MAIN MAN and you really will not care when she messages you,however you wont be rude and will reply within half a day....YOU ARE LOW PRIORITY TO HER SHE IS JUST CHECKING IN!!!!!!!!! however your above behaviour will make you HIGH PRIORITY...but becareful because as soon as you buckle at the knees to "put the relationship back together" SHE WILL **** OFF and SPIN HER PLATES....make her work MEET her then be busy for 10 days even if your crying in ya cornflakes