"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bible_Belt said:
Is it the proximity involved? In order to work a jab, you have to stand too close? You see about every other kind of punch. Or is it that the jab does not do enough damage to stop the other guy from taking the punch and still getting a takedown?
The trick is taking a small step and firing a hard jab at the same time. So you close the distance and do not "stand too close" when firing the jab, but still get appropriate range. Use those jabs to setup bigger punches.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Also keep in mind guys that Liddell is getting old(no comparisons to freak of nature randy couture), and that the last 5 guys he fought before Jackson were grapplers, fed to him by the UFC to build up his persona. He is a very talented fighter though.
 

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The Inside Man said:
The trick is taking a small step and firing a hard jab at the same time. So you close the distance and do not "stand too close" when firing the jab, but still get appropriate range. Use those jabs to setup bigger punches.
A jab though is kind of a misnomer. There's no reason a jab can't be just as hard hitting as your cross. A "jab" can easily knock someone out esp if you're wearing no gloves.
 

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This guy is good evidence that all you may need for self-defense is boxing skills.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmn8ORCbgZc
oh please!

boxing sucks. You want good self defense? learn BJJ and muay thai, dont waste any time on boxing, that goes in the same class as Karate and other useless systems.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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God_of_getting_layed said:
oh please!

boxing sucks. You want good self defense? learn BJJ and muay thai, dont waste any time on boxing, that goes in the same class as Karate and other useless systems.
You're out of your mind. Show me a youtube video of one guy beating down 4 attackers at once in the street using BJJ or MT.
 

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A jab though is kind of a misnomer. There's no reason a jab can't be just as hard hitting as your cross. A "jab" can easily knock someone out esp if you're wearing no gloves.
Well, you can flick it out for a "touch" or you can send a stiff one to do damage. It really sounds like I'm talking about something besides a punch lol.
 

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God_of_getting_layed said:
oh please!

boxing sucks. You want good self defense? learn BJJ and muay thai, dont waste any time on boxing, that goes in the same class as Karate and other useless systems.
Lets put on some gloves, go in the backyard, and see who has more fun. Boxing is the original martial art hmmm, how many UFC champions of the world rely extensively on their BOXING and not kicking. Anderson Silva, Randy Couture, Matt Serra(according to GSP fight), and of course mr Rampage. Tell them that boxing is dead.
 

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speakeasy said:
A jab though is kind of a misnomer. There's no reason a jab can't be just as hard hitting as your cross. A "jab" can easily knock someone out esp if you're wearing no gloves.
I agree that a Jab can easily knock someone out bare knuckle, but I disagree that it can be as hard hitting as a cross. You can build up a hell of a lot more momentum with a cross considering that you can rotate your hips damn near 180 degrees. Even if you are throwing a jab off of a cross and your hips are kind of ****ed for the jab, you still can't torque out anywhere near as much power as you can with a cross.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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God_of_getting_layed said:
oh please!

boxing sucks. You want good self defense? learn BJJ and muay thai, dont waste any time on boxing, that goes in the same class as Karate and other useless systems.
Disagreed. While I do think BJJ and muay thai are more effective than boxing, against somebody who knows nothing, boxing can be an excellent choice for self defense. I've seen boxers destroy people in street fights. The punches are almost the same as in Muay thai and there are more evasive moves.
You usually don't have to worry about your average idiot off the street having a double leg takedown in his arsenal. Against untrained guys (like 99% of the population) boxing is definitely a viable self defense option.

While karate is held back by tradition, and has many moves that are not based in reality, it is much better than nothing. I think that if you studied karate and sparred frequently and with intensity, you would probably have a huge leg up on the average guy.

Of course with either boxing or karate if you go up against anyone with ground fighting experience(a rarity in a street fight), you are definitely ****ed.
 

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Phyzzle said:
These threads have all you need to know. Frankly, when you're done reading these, you need to either sign up in a place that does sparring, or just shutup and forget about martial arts.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=19463
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=48559
So this guy has studied all of these arts, used them and is able to tell us which one will work against the others? Please. Awful, crappy sweeping generalizations as far as that goes. If you want something that's better written, read this: http://www.faqs.org/faqs/martial-arts/faq/

And keep in mind that arts change with the amount of training you have. His generalizations may cover the basics of the art I study, but he'd be very surprised what is taught at the higher levels.

Just find a place and start training! God damn! You could have checked out like twenty different places and seen twenty different arts and decided for yourself by now.
 

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wolf116 said:
OK so bigjohnson, when you go ....
I almost always carry at least one gun, although I have never tried to conceal an assault rifle.

I don't think MA training is a waste of time - it's fun, but if someone has NO TRAINING and an immediate safety issue then it's too damn late for martial arts training to resolve that issue.
 

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Kerpal said:
The other thing about boxing is that those guys train a lot and usually have excellent conditioning. Plus they get hit over and over again so they can take a punch.
Yeah, you're hardpressed to find anyone better conditioned than a pro boxer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jayer said:
.... run and call the police....
Having no weapons around is not a common state outside the office. Ahem. Of course I would NEVER carry within the hallowed confines of the workplace. :whistle:

As Centaurion and others have pointed out, MA training is wonderful, and I agree it's a great thing IF YOU ENJOY it. But let's not be idiotic and try and make it some sort of "real men can protect their loved ones" agrument. If that's what this is about then the top ways to do that is to make sure they stay away from bad places, have a good health plan and a safe home in a good neighborhood.

If you want to protect them, get THEM a weapon permit and training as well.

It's called an equalizer for a reason.
 

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Of course with either boxing or karate if you go up against anyone with ground fighting experience(a rarity in a street fight), you are definitely ****ed.
exactly

and this is exactly why BJJ + MT is prefered over boxing. with BJJ+MT you can kill the average joe as well as the trained boxer and karate practitioner. where as with boxing, you can only kill the average joe, the karate practiitoner, and an inferior boxer, but not a BJJ guy. hmmmm, let me think here, which is the best one to choose? duuuhh, I think its BJJ!!!!! :yes:

again, dont waste time on boxing. Go for the supreme: BJJ+MT
 

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Depends on placement more than anything. Your CNS, pump, or major tube gets taken out and you die no matter who you are. It just takes time, unlike in the movies. Anyone who's ever hunted can tell you that large mammals don't just fip over and die without a CNS hit.

Some sideways shooting retard that manages to miss any vital plumbing with 9 shots is just sad.

As to being shot not being effective against someone "who can take 9 at once":

"It happens so fast that you don't even get a chance to shoot back... I was scared the whole time... I was looking in the rear-view mirror like, 'Oh ****, somebody shot me in the face! It burns, burns, burns.'"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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