"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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darkstarrr

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I'm in Vitoria and Guarapari for a month so drop me a line if you're down her who'd like to meet up. I'll be up and down the coast past Buzios and to Rio at some point, too.

DS
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never been there. Spent time in Sao Paulo which is a nice town if you stay in the right places. Sao Paulo has been ruined by the Northeast and Rio immigrants. I won't even get into all the Peruvians who have immigrated.

Best part of Brazil is Rio Grande do Sul and Santa Catarina. Parana' state is pretty nice as well. Porto Alegre and Floripa are easy to get to by plane. Blumenau, Joinville, Gramado, etc. are cool towns. All are safe. All have some gorgeous girls. Best area of the Americas for beauty is in the South of Brazil.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGBaeCRyZBk&playnext_from=TL&videos=tczbz_KWtLQ
From the NY Times. Not totally correct. The ethnic mix for many is mostly German, Polish, and Ukrainian with a bit of Northern Italian.
 

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Thanks for the info Jimbo. I've been sarging to the max, cold approaches and everything. The thing I love about travelling is that because you're in an unfamiliar place its much easier to wear a smile. A smile is the most powerful thing we have in our repetoir. Things are going well here. I'll post again in MM about my Brazilian experiences in more detail soon.

PS - They love American guys especially if you have blue eyes. One of the numbers I got (which I don't even know how to dial correctly) is from a chic who doesn't speak a word of English. She initiated the numbers exchange by making a hand motion on an imaginary piece of paper.
 

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The Federative Republic of Brazil is continental South America's largest country having borders with every other South American nation except Chile and Ecuador. Brazil has captivated travelers for at least 500 years. Powdery white-sand beaches, lined with palm trees and fronting a deep blue Atlantic, stretch for more than 7000km.Some of the world’s most exciting cities lie inside of Brazil’s borders, and travelers need not come to Carnaval to experience the music, dance and revelry that pack so many calendar nights.
 

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WalterArcher said:
The Federative Republic of Brazil is continental South America's largest country having borders with every other South American nation except Chile and Ecuador. Brazil has captivated travelers for at least 500 years. Powdery white-sand beaches, lined with palm trees and fronting a deep blue Atlantic, stretch for more than 7000km.Some of the world’s most exciting cities lie inside of Brazil’s borders, and travelers need not come to Carnaval to experience the music, dance and revelry that pack so many calendar nights.
Well, that has NOTHING to do with the original post which leads me to believe you're something of a troll but I gotta admit...that was pretty damn well-written. Nice job, man.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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