I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maybe it's just me, but when it comes to crazy b**ches, the old saying "fight fire with fire" doesn't work. I'd rather just be cool, walk away from it, and make her look like the angry moron. Losing your cool because of some jealous nobody just lowers you to her level.Die Hard said:In my view, you handled everything like you should. The arrogant friend of your target was disrespecting you and shouldn't be allowed to get away with that. It's a shame she didn't get physically aggressive with you, so you could've kicked her to the floor. Throwing water at your target when she shouted to you was beautiful, much respect for that move! I also like the way you handled the friend when you met her next day. Keep it up, bro!
Are you seriously prepared to argue that throwing water on chicks that don't want to be around you is a DJ move? If you are, that's cool. I just want to know what I'm dealing with here, before I lay into you.f283000 said:WRONG WRONG WRONG! this was a good thing.
This is what DJ's do they make women feel a wide arrange of emotions
And if she wasn't interested, I wouldn't of gotten her number in the first place. Although I agree with some of this, she gave her loudmouth friend the hand gesture to call it off but she continued to jump up and down hesterically. Even as I was walking out of the room to stop me from putting a bottle of evian across her teeth she still followed me. So I said sarcasticly "You're talking to me like you want to fight me ..whats up with that?" and her mouth was just open, cant even rememeber what she was yapping about.usscrum said:Sounds like you came off as a huge creeper. If she was interested in you she would have told her friend to back off.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.