Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Braces ~ teeth

johnmich

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Hi there, my teeth are kinda baddish. The bottom ones are fine but the top front 4 are dodgy shape and a bit wonky. I know i could just get braces but

- going on holiday with friends in June
- startin Uni in Sept

I dont mind the teeth as such although im not always as comfortable smiling and showing em off (the front 2 can only be seen kinda like bugs bunny but not that bad)

I wouldnt mind braces its just i dont want to go on holiday with them, and especially start university where i know no one with braces. plus if i got em now then went to manchester then i would have to find another dentist.

Any advice guys im a bit torn both ways
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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immrtlwun

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You could always look into some veneers. I have no idea what the prices are for them, but if you don't want to deal with braces, its an option.
 

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Truthfully..if i was you i would get the braces....Obviouslly your teeth are hurting your self esteem... I do not think braces will hurt your game either.. I actually find certain girls with braces sexy...
 

johnmich

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actually forget veneers, they are literally stick on teeth which i do not want. Plus people could notice if i turned up with perfect teeth after seeing them the day before with my normal teeth
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There will always be excuses for putting it off. You could compromise by doing it in July after the holiday but before school starts.
 

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Forget veneers, too expensive. Just have your dentist file your 2 front teeth down a bit.
 

johnmich

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can you get braces that you can take out when you want, im not sure if theyre called retainers.

what do you mean as well DukeNukem?
 

Xtravaganza

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There's some new kind of braces that actually go behind your teeth. So I heard...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donjuan87

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Just go for it. You will be so happy you did.

I was really afraid people would make fun of me when I got braces (I'm 18) but no one did, not even people who I don't get along with.

And don't worry about them being a pain in the azz, they really aren't. If people tell you that braces are, they're exaggerating.

Just remember to get an electric toothbrush and use Listerine after every brushing.
 
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