“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How does this song make you feel SS?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8pbW7bRD6qc&feature=player_detailpage

A girl posted this on my facebook. No, she's not an ex, she isn't even a girl I've fvcked, although she did try pretty hard while I was single. However, I've always had a strong suspicion of her BPDness. She even seems crazier than my ex. I guess the only reason I'm still friends with her is for entertainment purposes, and a reminder to myself. She moved away to Washington, so I never have to see her, but I read her statuses from time to time. They're either extremely happy and sarcastic, or depression and emotional, with no between. Went and listened to this song out of curiosity, and can't say I'm surprised. Feminist garbage, rationalizing their bad behavior by their past, or being drunk, metaphors about self-harm.. the list in endless. Pretty sure this was the kind of sh!t my BPD ex listened to too. Maybe I should had paid more attention to these indie films/music.

-Scars
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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with no between

That's BPD. When she likes something, it will be the most amazing thing in the world, much like a teenage girl. If you're her guy, she will feel that way about you, and that's what guys get hooked on.

But then she'll change like the weather, to the exact opposite. That most amazing song in the world is now forgotten. That most amazing guy is now the most evil man in the world and deserves to suffer. Inherent in the disorder is that 'jekyl & hyde' flipping back and forth between extremes.

Guys who have just left a BPD relationship have a hard time adjusting to a healthy relationship afterward. A sane woman can't love you like a crazy girl does, at least on a crazy girl's good day. That makes sane women boring by comparison, especially to the illogical side of the brain that determines attraction.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Guys who have just left a BPD relationship have a hard time adjusting to a healthy relationship afterward. A sane woman can't love you like a crazy girl does, at least on a crazy girl's good day. That makes sane women boring by comparison, especially to the illogical side of the brain that determines attraction.
I have to put my hand up for this one unfortunately.

"A crazy girl's good day" is pretty hard to match. That's a great term.
 

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This girl was also "engaged" then she wrote a huge long status putting her fiance on blast. She claimed that he cheated on her with his ex (she also made it a point to mention she was fat), that he is into 12yr old girls (?), that he is a scum bag, had a drug problem etc.. Not sure how much of it is true, but this girl is disgustingly hilarious sometimes. This has got to be the worst case of BPD I've ever seen. Even my ex wasn't this crazy.

-Scars
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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