"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BPD girl and pregnancy

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Why BPD girls can be so obsess with prégnancy to the point of cheating to get pregnant ?

Or hiding they have are not on contraceptive?

It's a question to a situation I've seen.

Why they want to get pregnant, even at a young age?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ooh that gives me the shudders why would a guy want to have a child with a BPD, my ex she didn't want children.
 

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Ooh that gives me the shudders why would a guy want to have a child with a BPD, my ex she didn't want children.
Be thankfull u didnt knock her out mate.. Bless you.. Me.. Less unfortunate
 

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I think it has less to do with the guy and more to do with securing:
  • A lifetime source of narcissistic supply (the baby)
  • Convenient triangulation for ALL of her existing relationships (the baby)
  • A constant distraction from the void and feelings of nothingness (the baby)
Pretty scary lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think it has less to do with the guy and more to do with securing:
  • A lifetime source of narcissistic supply (the baby)
  • Convenient triangulation for ALL of her existing relationships (the baby)
  • A constant distraction from the void and feelings of nothingness (the baby)
Pretty scary lol
Triangulation is their main purposes along with lifetime child support and making her former husband less than a dirt under her shoe. If the forner husband smart enough he will detached emotionally.. If not he continues relationship recycle,be put behind bars repeatedly..

I Know a guy put behind bars for 13th times by his ex bpd on his good intentions to save the family.. Its heartbreaking.. Now hes in alliance marching with fathers right movement in the u.s.

The emotionally damage she left him with is lifetime taxing his life and so much of growth potential as he aged go wasted.

Dont walk away from bpd crazies but RUN!
 

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The only thing thats worst than having a bpd gf is having a kid with a bpd

You would be stuck with crazyness for the rest of your life

Bpd is highly hereditary. A bpd children will **** up tour life so bad when they get to adulthood.

I have 1 brother with bpd and man he is ****ing up my parents life its not even funny.

He blame every one but himsefl for his screwed up life. Always making treath of suicide and overall just rotting the life of everyone around him
 

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The only thing I need to know about BPD women is that they exhibit many types of basic female behavior, but it’s on steroids, until their love cycle turns to hate based on their subconscious hatred of men, and expect that 180 degree turn to be supercharged also…
 
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The girl get pregnant by every guy she LTR. Since Teenage time.

From the studies BPD do get pregnant often during "teen" or "by accident"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The girl get pregnant by every guy she LTR. Since Teenage time.

From the studies BPD do get pregnant often during "teen" or "by accident"
She’s either extremely careless or a congenital trapper …
Both scenarios are very low self esteem.
 
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They usually dump the kids on the daddies to raise. BPD is about reliving a traumatic childhood abandonment, which will dominate all relationships for that person's life. Other than lost love, of which a bpd girl will have many, the only stronger abandonment is being separated from her child. They have kids and abandon them, just so they can feel that abandonment, which is like crack to a bpd. They can never get enough.
 

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My ex she loves her dog more than anybody else, she treats the dog like its a child, really strange, a real love hate relationship. One day the dog took off she couldn't find her I thought her whole world going to crash. Dog ever dies...… not sure what would happen the ex would go into deep depression. I triggered the exes abandonment issues a lot I didn't know it at the time but I do now. She was so fvcking clingy she needed to know what I was doing all the time I felt like I was on a leash.
 

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Men should indeed be responsible for BC, women getting pregnant on purpose on unsuspecting man should be jailed.
 

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Who cares if they mental, just spread ur DNA...

There's plenty of little Spaz running around in different countries.

I'm sure those pretty little things has some beta provider to love and raise my brood.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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