"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BPD ex reached out, what is the proper response?

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So you're just here to say I'm not that great? That's you're whole purpose? You're supposed to show others that you are greater, not just say I'm not that great.

antibigneil? Oh, and just so you know, I'm bigger than you too. Be honest, you're a short, bald man, correct?

There you have it, folks:

* Applegoo says $200,000 isn't that much where her Section 8 apartment is, but won't tell us how much she makes in welfare.
* Applegoo says this girl isn't that hot but refuses to show us a photo of a girl she thinks is hot.

Applegoo.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigneil said:
So you're just here to say I'm not that great? That's you're whole purpose? You're supposed to show others that you are greater, not just say I'm not that great.

Oh, and just so you know, I'm bigger than you too.

There you have it, folks:

* Applegoo says $200,000 isn't that much where her Section 8 apartment is, but won't tell us how much she makes in welfare.
* Applegoo says this girl isn't that hot but refuses to show us a photo of a girl she thinks is hot.

Applegoo.
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You're deluded. People don't come here for epenis, except you. Also, you don't realize you start all the stupid sh1t talking right? Why the fvck do you care if someone thinks your girl is the hottest girl around or not? I don't. In my opinion, I've dated hotter/better looking girls, but maybe you would like your girl more. She's not my style. I like really petite, tall girls. You like them a little bit thicker. Who the hell cares?
 
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And your opinion does not trump a formal, official consensus.

My girl weighs 105 lb.

I found a photo of Applegoo (currently single and unemployed):

 
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"That girl is a 7 but I won't dare show any girl I think is hotter, because there is no such girl" - applegoo

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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We get it. You never saw a hotter girl in your life and have steam coming out your ears. Look at you, trying to disprove that I have a hot girl, as your main purpose is to whine that a hotter girl (of a secret race) hurt you, deeply, and that it's because she was mentally ill. You poor thing!

Anyhow, I took all those photos and am proud of our work. I plan to take more. I think this girl is incredible and her scores prove that, no matter what certain bitter bald headed Indian men say in the wee hours.
 
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Rofl, I showed Neil's girl's pic to my friend asking him to rate her and he straight up asked me why I was showing him a pic of my ex. Then I told him no, not my ex (I think my ex is hotter personally). His reply "looks like a hooker...idk"
 
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bigneil said:
Anyhow, I took all those photos and am proud of our work. I plan to take more. I think this girl is incredible and her scores prove that, no matter what certain bitter bald headed Indian men say in the wee hours.
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Dude, while I'm not indian, cut out the racist sh1t. Seriously unacceptable. You want to talk sh1t and stuff, fine, but cut out the race. There are actually quite amount of indian dudes here, like that skinny guy or whatever his name is and others.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SUMMARY:

Applegoo: I was dating a girl who left me because she had BPD and was CRAZY!
bigneil: My BPD girl never left me.
Applegoo: Your BPD girl isn't that hot.
bigneil: (Proof that his BPD girl is that hot)
Applegoo: YOUR GIRL IS A CVNT WHO GIVES BLOW JOBS FOR $50!!!!!
bigneil: Gee, I wonder why Applegoo's girl left him?
 
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NOTE: I'm a photographer and she's a model. SHE brags about the (standardized) ratings (many now in the 99 percentile).

You guys can't argue with the 99 percentile.
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If you knew about Statistics you Knew that the fact that many of us are rating her as a 7, makes it highly unlikely for her to je in the 99 percentile.
 
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If you knew about Statistics you Knew that the fact that many of us are rating her as a 7, makes it highly unlikely for her to je in the 99 percentile.
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Do you know about punctuation? Why are you randomly capitalizing certain words? Are you saying people here are unbiased against me? Funny. The 99 percentile was based on a national consensus from a professional photo rating service called Photo Feeler. I had dozens of different girls rated.

Why not put some of your girls there and prove me wrong? Show me that your girls can score 99 percentile too.

Here's how it works: until one of you can show the forum a hotter girl, I have the hottest girl on the forum.

 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Summary of Neil in every thread:

Neil: "My GF scored a 9.9 on the website and I make 200k a year. She also is diagnosed BPD and loves me. Don't you guys think I'm so cool"

Neil to himself: "I bet the guys on sosuave are so jealous and envious of me now. Mission accomplished"

SoSuave Members rolling their eyes reading while reading his posts: "Neil is massively insecure"

Neil, how do you know realize this? Rofl. Are you seriously that dumb?
 
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bigneil said:
SUMMARY:

Applegoo: I was dating a girl who left me because she had BPD and was CRAZY!
bigneil: My BPD girl never left me.
Applegoo: Your BPD girl isn't that hot.
bigneil: (Proof that his BPD girl is that hot)
Applegoo: YOUR GIRL IS A CVNT WHO GIVES BLOW JOBS FOR $50!!!!!
bigneil: Gee, I wonder why Applegoo's girl left him?
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Rofl...you are seriously deluded if that's what you took from all this. Didn't you say you have ESP (psychic ability) too? You are so dumb rofl

Neil, where do you live in Texas? I'll come out in July and take your b1tch from you. Honestly, even as a wh0re stripper hooker, like my ex was to be fair (at least I am honest), she's selling herself short by being with your old wrinkly ass.
 
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Hey Neil,

This is a recent girl I was chilling with. Not the prettiest girl I've been with but still very pretty. Whenever I go out in public with her, everyone stares. Unlike your girl, she does not have a butter face and does not look like a hooker.




Why do you think everyone is calling your girl a 7? I heard there were hot white girls in Texas. Guess I heard wrong if you are salivating over your hooker GF or maybe you are ugly and she is the best you can do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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